RodeoH Boxer Brief Harness Giveaway! Leave a Comment to Enter

It’s Sugarbutch’s 6th anniversary! So let’s have a giveaway.

The RodeoH brief harness has been hugely popular since it was released last year, and they’ve just released a grey boxer brief, too. They are comfortable, easy to pack with, machine washable, and pretty fucken adorable, so it’s no wonder that everybody loves them.

Want one of your very own? Leave a comment with one blessing for Sugarbutch’s anniversary or one thing you love or your favorite post or something you’d like to see me write about or a comment with something else entirely to enter the contest. You must leave a legitimate email address in order for us to contact you to get your mailing address and boxer brief size.

I’ll pick a winner from the comments at random on Monday, May 7th.

Thanks, RodeoH!

Published by Sinclair Sexsmith

Sinclair Sexsmith (they/them) is "the best-known butch erotica writer whose kinky, groundbreaking stories have turned on countless queer women" (AfterEllen), who "is in all the books, wins all the awards, speaks at all the panels and readings, knows all the stuff, and writes for all the places" (Autostraddle). ‚ÄčTheir short story collection, Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica, was a 2016 finalist for a Lambda Literary Award. They identify as a white non-binary butch dominant, a survivor, and an introvert.

71 thoughts on “RodeoH Boxer Brief Harness Giveaway! Leave a Comment to Enter”

  1. Erin says:

    Enjoy reading your writings from erotica to gender things. Also, thanks for being an open book especially in terms of open relationship kind of stuff. Never really understood much of it but am able to understand more through your writings. Happy 6 years and heres to many more!


  2. This looks so comfortable. I love packing, but most harnesses are so uncomfortable and cause me to rub raw that I rarely pack. I would love to win this and if I do I will write a review on my blog and on FetLife.

  3. emily wunderlich says:

    i wish for sugarbutch many more years of incredible outreach and community support! thanks for always being there!

  4. And now for the blessing for your anniversar; May you be blessed with new readers, may you touch more lives in the years to come, may you see yourself through the eyes of others, may you shed whatever hinders you and above all be blessed in all that you do.

    Thank you for being here I have learned things here I’ve never read about elsewhere. I’m not sure what I’d like to hear about just that I want to hear whatever you have to say.

  5. Orion says:

    Happy anniversary Sugarbutch! I look forward to many, many more years of smokin hot smut, articulate enlightening musings, fun giveaways, and gorgeous love letters.

    Thank you for bringing feminist, queer, kinky, poly words in to so many worlds.

    Oh and “I’m kind of insatiable” is a line frequently repeated by my circle of friends… ;)

  6. Shelly says:

    Surreal. I was just going to ask you about this product, if you’d used it, does it work well, etc.

    So it’s kismet that it’s your anniversary and are giving them away.

    Because of you and your blog – I have met some incredible people, have been titillated, informed, educated and most importantly, discovered I am not alone in my queer, pervy, butch daddy service top identity.

    It’s been a long, strange trip. May it never end.

    Love & light to you.

  7. Jaytee Shaw says:

    Congrats on 6 wonderful years! I love reading this blog because of the lovely mix of erotica and gender stuff. Keep up the awesome work!

  8. Rachel says:

    May the relationships be ever so ful and fulfilling, and may everyday bring new experiences and joy to share.
    I love learning about d/s roles, different types of play, and the complexity and compassion of your relationship.
    Thank you got your openness and you thoughts.

  9. Jude says:

    May you be blessed with an ever-increasing and appreciative readership, a satisfying and inspirational sex life, and the strength to continue exploring your relationships and gender in the public eye.

  10. Dana V says:

    Happy Anniversary! Thank you so much for all you do to promote queer visibility, challenge systems and categories, and make the internet a hotter, kinkier space. Here’s to many more posts to come!

  11. Stella says:

    Ooooh, nice gift! Especially since I live in Mississippi and they’ve banned all the sex shops. Gotta love a red state! :/

    Happy anniversary, Sugarbutch!

    Have enjoyed your columns for many years. I hope you have many, many more!


  12. Jessie says:

    Congrats on 6 years of sharing your kinky, pervy, radical brain with us. I came here for the toy reviews, and I keep coming back because this blog is an amazing community resource, and because your posts are heartfelt and validating.

    Also, I have been ogling this harness since it was announced. So. Pretty.

  13. Gr says:

    happy anniversary! thanks for bringing us along with you as you push your edges. this blog is one of a kind, so i hope you don’t let the haters get you down. may sugarbutch thrive, and throb, for many years to come!

  14. Happy Anniversary! Always looking forward to your posts and insight!
    Stiletto Siren

  15. Sian says:

    Happy anniversary SugarButch!

    You introduced me to glorious smut and erotica and I love your letters to Kristin. Thank you for sharing your experiences with us/me.

    Keep writing!!

  16. Wynter Reign says:

    Happy Anniversary!

  17. Blue says:

    Happy anniversary, Sugarbutch! Keep writing, growing and evolving.

  18. Shereen says:

    Aaah! We’ve been meaning to buy each other a pair of these ever since we saw them in the toy store a couple of months ago. You’re the best, Sinclair. Happy anniversary; keep doing the good work you do.

  19. Rebekah says:

    Holy batman, I need my boi to fuck me in this! Happy anniversary SS, keep on keepin’ on. <3

  20. Lyn says:

    Happy Anniversary to Sugarbutch! Bless you for this blog, for your words, for educating me, for providing me with a link to my community, for helping me bear the distance between my love and myself during this long-distance phase of our relationship… I’ve been eyeing the RodeoH line, to send her a pair to spoil her with (also so she thinks of me when wearing them, of course), but those boxer briefs? Oh, that’s just upped the hotness quotient by a factor of a million or so… I’ve been soaking up this site like a thirsty little queer sponge. Thank you for helping me see my insatiability is not a problem, nor something to be ashamed of. Happy Anniversary, Mr. Sexsmith, and I wish you many more.

  21. Frank says:

    Happy anniversary! I hope you continue to grow in sexual happiness and health, and I hope you continue to share it with us.

  22. Julie says:

    This is the first thing I read every morning. I love the discourse on gender, on open relationships, on kink and so much more. Many blessings to you for all the good that you put into the world. Happy 6 years!

  23. puckish says:

    first of all, congratulations on six years of writing for such a big audience… most of whom you don’t know, but i’m sure you make a difference in their worlds as you have mine, what with writing about your relationships, sexual adventures, forays into ‘fringier’ areas, and various recommendations. i, personally, appreciate your words and thoughts more than i can well express.

    second of all, harness boxer briefs? yes, please!!

  24. Kissiah Aiken says:

    I love this harness! As a mostly femme, it’s fun to strap one on under my dress, but the strap that comes between my cheeks is annoying sometimes. I think this would work wonderfully! Has anyone tried it?

  25. nyna says:

    I was going to leave this comment on your anniversary post, but I’d love this harness so I’ll post it here instead.

    I just wanted to say that I really, really appreciate your blog, and it means a lot to me that there’s someone out there writing about things like butch identities and BDSM relationships and the problems and joys of open relationships and all these things that are important to me, and doing it without apologizing for it, without acting like these aspects of identity are something to be ashamed of.

    I hate that you get so much shit for choices you’re making about your life, and thank you for continuing to write about it anyway, because it really does mean a lot to me. I’m approaching a lot of these issues from a different angle than you — I’m a boi-ish genderqueer sub — but really just knowing that there are ways to work with these identities and desires and still be happy and loved, well, that’s important. It matters.

    So thank you.

  26. taylor says:

    Happy anniversary! I loved Kristen’s guest post!!!!!

  27. Laurel says:

    My girlfriend has been eyeing one of these for awhile. It would be awesome to surprise her!

    Thank you, Sinclair, for everything–over and over I come back to learn, to grow, and to get turned on. Your words and insight are a gift.

  28. Skybirdsnplanes says:

    Happy Anniversary Sugarbutch!

    You’re writing has opened up a whole new world, and you’re erotica is hot!

    Here’s to many more years of exploration and hot kinky writing!

  29. tuesday says:

    Congratulations on your tenacity. I wish you many more anniversaries because I selfishly want to keep reading.

  30. Ray says:

    Without a doubt my favourite thing I have ever read on this blog was The Butch Poem. I go back to it every time I need a reminder that I can inhabit this body. Thank you!

  31. wn says:

    Keep changing lives by writing about yours. Love you!

  32. Just says:

    Oh man, this would be awesome. I love sugarbutch and hope there are many more anniversaries to come.

  33. Kae says:

    Happy 6th Anniversary Sugarbutch!

    I’ve been thinking about my favorite posts and struggling to name just one. I’ve been loving the weekly love letters and think I’m going to start writing letters to my partner. I love reading about the daddy/girl. I love the gender articulations and relationship studies, I find they often help with my own relationship musings. I have been reading your blog for several years and appreciate your honesty, sexy stories, and queerness.

    Thank you!

  34. Chase says:

    Congrats on 6 years! Keep up the good work!

    Most memorable so far: “It’s better to have a cock and not need one than need a cock and not have one.” – that advice that has served me well over the years. Also love your reviews, you sold me on Vixskin!

  35. WannabeQueen says:

    May you write good things this year, may you fuck good things this year, may you do good things this year.
    Happy anniversary, sugarbutch.

    (as far as favorite posts go, I think the one about the do-be-do-be-do complex has had the most resonating effect. That’s part of the reason I want a harness, I’m not sure where I fall there. So getting a free one would be excellent)

  36. Becca says:

    6 years is not only a lifetime in queer relationships, it is in webtime too! I’m looking forward to your 10th anniversary bash!

    Thank you for all that you do, exploratory, educational, sticking your neck/heart/dick out on the line in public.

  37. beforethedawn09 says:

    I wish you many more years of success–I’ve both been highly educated and turned on by your blog, and I hope to keep doing so!

    (And I need another harness!)

  38. S. says:

    Congratulations on 6 years, and many, many more!

  39. Bobbie says:

    Thank you for all that you do, Sinclair. I am inspired by your writing in so many ways.

  40. J.Frank says:

    I absolutely love your blog. It helped me being the lonely queer teen into BD. & The love letter series has been super insightful I think. Keep it up and come to North Carolina!

  41. Allie says:

    I really love your weekly love letters. They cause me to examine my own relationship through the great communication you and Kristen have built together. My hope for you this year is that you can continue to build off of and grow from the strong foundation you both have with each other – and have fun doing it!

  42. Tracy says:

    RodeoH Boxer Brief Harness Giveaway!

    “Pretty, fuckin adorable”

    Please, please tell me this is on the fuckin label? :)

    Gimme dem briefs- NOW!


  43. SDC says:

    Love your work. Happy anniversary!

  44. Beans says:

    Happy 6 years! I love the smut and the gender talk, and your reviews have never steered me wrong.

  45. EK says:

    another year
    three sixty five
    another beer
    another dive
    but one united
    another divided
    I am invited
    to be well guided.
    Thank you!

  46. Alex says:

    Thanks for 6 years of excellent writing! Always nice to get smut in my feed at work ;)

  47. e says:

    Ooh! Pick me! Pick me!

  48. Jen says:

    I am so glad that I stumbled onto your site! It has been amazing to see the amazing relationship that you have built with Kristen, and the growth of your work. So may things that you have written have struck a nerve that i don’t think i could pick any of them as having moved or touched me most. I am looking forward to another year of SBC! ALso, i soooooooooooo want that harness, ever since i first saw it!

  49. Ashley says:

    Sinclair, may you (and Kristen!) continue to be blessed with your articulate words and the courage to share your stories with us.

    Regardless of whether or not we understand/desire the direction your relationship is taking, may all your readers learn something about sex, gender, kink, nonmonogamy, and ourselves as Sugarbutch moves forward.

  50. Steph says:

    Congrats on your 6th anniversary! And here’s to many more! Keep up the good work – I love a bitta smut in the morning ;)

Comments are closed.