Cock Confidence: Spur by Vixen Creations (Review)
It’s been a while since I’ve written a review of a cock! The Silk, since it’s so non-realistic, doesn’t quite feel the same as something…
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Tristan Butt Plug by Vixen Creations (Review)
As of 2/8/16 This product is no longer available at Babeland Okay, maybe I spoke too soon. Of course, as soon as I call something…
Cock Confidence: Buck by Vixen Creations (Review)
Oh, Vixskin. (Sigh & swoon.) I often get questions about which cocks I recommend, and I always say Vixen Creation’s line of Vixskin material. They…
Cock Confidence: Bandit by Vixen Creations
I’m pulling from my cock-review structure to give you the low-down on the Bandit, a Vixskin silicone strap-on cock. Shape: Immediately, the shape is what…
Cock Confidence: The Outlaw by Vixen Creations (Review)
Following the Johnny review breakdown precedence, here’s how the Outlaw cock by Vixen Creations from one of my very favorite sex toy stores stacks up.
(Then I’ll tell you a little embarrassing story concerning the Outlaw and a hotel room with Kristen.)
Cock Confidence: Johnny by Vixen Creations (Review)
The four major things to consider about a cock are: length, girth, shape, and material. Here’s how the Johnny from Babeland measures up.
Cock Confidence: Goodfella from Vixen Creations
I just got Vixskins packing cock Goodfella from Eden this week – it is made to pack with, so its very bendable, and it has…
Elust #149 includes “Is Kink (Ever) Wholesome?”
Elust is the only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic…
Cock Confidence: The RodeoH Slyder (Review)
I’m obsessed. Look, the dildo market for the past twenty years has been a wild ride. In the late 90s, when I started buying dildos,…
In Search of A Magic Carpet Sex Toy
A few months ago, a friend came to me with a mysterious sex toy and wanted to know if I knew what it was, or,…
Plus Size Pegging: A Longer Dildo & Comfortable Harness
My wife and I have been dabbling in pegging. She has mentioned to me that the harness is uncomfortable and that it would probably be…
Which harnesses work with double dildos?
Featured image l-r: Feeldoe Realdoe; Injoyus; Double by BS Atelier; Fuze Tango Double-Ender Dear Mr. Sexsmith, My girlfriend is visiting soon and is buying a…
The Best Uncut Strap-Ons: Uncut #1 by Tantus & Ellis by New York Toy Collective
Let’s go ahead and get it out of the way: There is no silicone strap on that I know of which has foreskin that actually…
Review: What’s the Best Wand Vibrator?
In general, I’m not much of a fan of vibrators. I used to be—small, buzzy egg vibrators were some of the first sex toys I…
Review: Carter, The (Big!) Bendable Dildo by New York Toy Collective
Carter has joined the family of insertable silicone dildos from New York Toy Collective, which has quickly become one of my most favorite manufacturers of…
Cruising in the Woods (Kai & DJ #1)
I’m supposed to find DJ, but I’m not exactly in a hurry to get out of this sea of hard dicks. I’d know their favorite…
The Ten Sugarbutch Cock Commandments
I’ve been teaching strap-on workshops for about six years now, and I’ve been strapping on for about fifteen. I also coach people to have more…
I need you to take a little more for me.
Content warning: This story contains bondage and Daddy/boy language, with some language around force and ownership. Read it at your own risk/pleasure. “Be good, and…
The Sugarbutch Guide to Cock Confidence: Soft Packing (Part 2)
What do I pack with? Just about anything can be packed into your briefs and worn as a packer, but fear not! Plenty of queer…
eLust #37 Features “Like a Faggot”
Welcome to e[lust] – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for…
Review: Double Agent Dildo
As of 7/28/15 This product is no longer available at Babeland I kind of hate the word “dildo.” But I didn’t let that stop me…
Review: Comparing Two Ejaculating Cocks
I have a confession to make: I like dirty sex. I mean, you probably already knew that. And by dirty I mean … body fluids….
Expansion & Contraction
I wrote 9 posts in August 2011, and today’s the last day of August, so unless I get a dozen up in one day (which…
A Little Bit About Butch Voices, Butch Nation, and “Masculine of Center”
So, a group of folks who were on the Butch Voices board have broken off and created a new organization, Butch Nation. If you keep…
e[lust] #27 includes “Strapping On for the First Time”
Welcome to e[lust] – Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy…
Cock Confidence: How Not To Slip Out When Strapped On
MSE asked: Like Tuesday, I also have a question about strap-on sex. Whenever my girl and I use a strap-on, the cock always falls out…
What Are Some Sex Positive Words for Women?
Looks like this came from the Dallas Slut Walk—but I’m not sure of its exact origin. I found it on Tumblr. Since I feel like…
The Sugarbutch Guide to Cock Confidence: Pack & Play
See also: My Packing Cocks 101 on Sugarbutch Speaking of pack & play cocks: There just aren’t very many available right now. The technology that…
Extra Sexy Valentine’s Day Gift Guide
So Babeland did this sweet Valentine’s Day gift guide, and it got me thinking about what sexy toys and gifts I would highly, highly recommend,…
elust #21 includes my “Gabrielle, Guest Star”
I submitted my recent story Gabrielle, Guest Star to the elust sex blog roundup, since I write smut so infrequently these days I thought it’d…
Review: Tantus VIP Super Soft
I haven’t been reviewing many products lately, on purpose. I’m getting a little bored reviewing products. Don’t get me wrong, I’m grateful to have the…
e[lust] #20: “On Making Sex Last” is in the Top Three!
Welcome to e[lust] – Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy…
Masks at October’s Sideshow
Hey guess what! Sideshow is just around the corner. Next week, Tuesday October 12th, Sideshow: The Queer Literary Carnival will feature six readers on the…
What happened at the BUTCH Voices NYC Conference
So BUTCH Voices NYC is over … And it was fantastic. I want to tell you all about it, and I barely know where to…
The Butch Voices NYC Conference Starts Today!
The Butch Voices NYC Regional Conference is almost here! The conference itself is tomorrow, Saturday the 25th, with registration opening up at 9am and workshops…
E[lust] #18: Summer Sexblog Reads
I know: for the most part, the e[lust] roundup isn’t a very useful thing for readers. I think most of you ignore them. I don’t…
Countdown to the Femme Conference: Three Weeks
The Femme Conference 2010: No Restrictions is happening in Oakland, CA in just three short weeks. There’s still time to register! I attended in 2008…
e[lust] #15 includes my “Waking Up”
Welcome to e[lust] – Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy…
Sideshow! The Queer Literary Carnival May 11th
Well folks, it’s that time again … Did you know May is National Masturbation Month? The Sex Blogger Calendar tells me it was because of…
2010 Sex Blogger Calendar Giveaway Winners
Happy Friday y’all! Here are the winners of the 2010 Sex Blogger Calendar giveaway: #2 Lia Sphere who loves Namio Harukawa #9 Ash-a-Fresh who loves…
Come One, Come All, to SIDESHOW!
(More details & information at SideshowReadingSeries.wordpress.com.) New York City: home to some of the best performance art, spoken word, poetry, and literary culture in the…
April’s Pin-Up Giveaway
It’s April again, and you already know that means it’s my birthday, and Sugarbutch’s blogiversary. But did you also know that this year, I am…
The Sugarbutch Birthday Tradition
April 3rd is my birthday, I’m turning 31 tomorrow. I love being in my thirties (fuck those who-am-I finding-myself-bullshit twenties, I’m so ready to be…
Lipstick Blow Job
Kristen: perfect. well i will come by around 9 then. that is late for dinner but oh well Sinclair: okay, will be home. that will…
Year In Review On Sugarbutch: 2009
Remember when I used to do monthly roundup posts? I only did the first three months of 2009, which I actually kind of miss. Perhaps…
Yes, No, and Consent
In much of the workshops and trainings around sexuality and sexual expression that I have attended, we have often started with one basic concept: saying…
Visions of Sexual Freedom
Need a fabulous gift this holiday season? Don’t know what to get your (least) favorite boss or your Grandma? Well! Here ya go: the New…
Fucking & Making Love
She looked so damn hot yesterday. I don’t know what it was exactly. She was in an outfit I’ve seen, tight slim jeans, her girly…
Come Say Hello! My Fall ’09 Events
I’ve been doing some housecleaning around Sugarbutch since I now have some serious time on my hands. Perhaps you noticed by, for example, the four…
Dear Mr. Sexsmith: Packing
Hi Sinclair, I have a soft packer, which I can carry around in my briefs with no problem. But, when strapping with a cock like…