Hello! I’m Sinclair

I’m a writer and teacher, and I lead workshops about using identity and power as tools for liberation. Through fields like feminism, queerness, trans & nonbinary genders, BDSM & kink, the transformative power of creative expression, and a variety of spiritual practices, I study myself and the places where I interact with the world.

After years of studying erotic embodiment, I’m part of a collaborative that founded Body Trust in 2014 with the mission to do more radically inclusive erotic embodiment work.

I run ecourses online regularly through D/s Playground, and teach workshops in person at colleges, community centers, and sex toy stores. I also read my work aloud at poetry readingss and in bookstores sometimes.

I’ve edited a few anthologies, including Erotix: Literary Journal of Somatics, Say Please: Lesbian BDSM Erotica, and multiple editions of the Best Lesbian Erotica series by Cleis press. My short story collection Sweet & Rough was published by Maverick Press in 2015 and was a finalist for the Lesbian Erotica Lambda Literary Award. More about my books here.

In 2019, my boy rife & I won a leather title contest and in 2019 and 2020 are traveling and teaching extensively. Follow our adventures on our Facebook page.

You can support my work by becoming a patron through Patreon, and you get perks like access to the password protected posts, access to monthly live webinars about D/s, individual sessions with me via video, and custom writings. Sign up on Patreon.

About the site

Sugarbutch was started in April, 2006 and has received many awards, and is one of the most popular and highest ranking sex blogs online.

Site Credits:

Design by me and rife/Rowdy Ferret Design. Hosted on Dreamhost using WordPress and the Wild Book theme.

Policies

Here are the policies for this site realating to comments, password protected posts, reviewing products, content warnings, disclosure policy, and copyright information. For official purposes, here’s the Privacy Policy, and Terms of Service.

The official Mx. Sexsmith bio

Sinclair Sexsmith (they/them) is “the best-known butch erotica writer whose kinky, groundbreaking stories have turned on countless queer women” (AfterEllen), who “is in all the books, wins all the awards, speaks at all the panels and readings, knows all the stuff, and writes for all the places” (Autostraddle). ​Their short story collection, Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica, was a 2016 finalist for the Lambda Literary Award, and they are the current editor of the Best Lesbian Erotica series. Find more of their work at sugarbutch.net.

Want to get in touch?

Y’all, I get so much email. So. Much. And I spend a lot of time answering it, but it still piles up. In an attempt to make my email inbox more manageable, please use the contact form to get in touch.

You can also reach me on Twitter, I’m @MrSexsmith, or Facebook, under fb.com/sugarbutch.

My email address is [email protected], but I’d much prefer you use the contact form—it helps keep my inbox under control. Thank you!

26 thoughts on “Hello! I’m Sinclair”

  1. Jan says:

    I love your blog, Sinclair!

  2. Blade says:

    Dude, you are a real dude's butch! I'm wanting a password to read the protected stuff. Would be psyched! Thanks, Blade

  3. Azaan says:

    I LOVE THIS BLOG!

  4. Rose says:

    I love your writing – what a breath of fresh air! – love your ties and your latest posting too. Looking forward to reading more – could you please send me a password?

  5. Jeni Quirke says:

    You are a great writer x

  6. B.T says:

    I just found this website and already it has changed my life.

  7. Sarah says:

    I found your site and I'm pretty sure I want to marry you. Thanks for having this space out there. Can I have the password, since I am a pretty femme who is terribly intrigued by your writing?

  8. Politico says:

    I have spent several hours over the past few days reading your posts. I must say they are incredible. I am a butch feminist and find your gender writings very interesting but who are we kidding, I have really become addicted to the smut. I would be so appreciative of a password if you should see fit.

  9. CB from Germany says:

    I tried to mail you a few butch pics of my humble self plus some feedback via the contact-me-link on this site.Unfortunately my mail returned, please send me your correct mailaddress.

  10. Chrissy says:

    can i have accessssss please??

    wanna read.

  11. Jane says:

    I'm not butch, and I'm not a lesbian, but your blog is AMAZING to me. You are a fabulous writer and you make me wish I was "traveling in your circle." I think that I will so enjoy reading your stories and exploring a side of me that has yet to be, um…"tapped" :0)

  12. Julia says:

    Your insight is awesome, after having read some of your posts on the difficulty of explaining/defending the Butch-femme dynamic I have been better able to explain to my straight and even confused queer friends, as a Femme I am constantly asked why don't I just be with a man, it can be very difficult to explain that "yes i am a lesbian, but I want a big 'ol butch. I would love to have access to your protected entries, and I am looking forward to your future entries, thanks for sharing your insight with the queer community.

  13. Kate says:

    Hi. i would love a password to the protected posts. if the unprotected ones are this good, what can the protected ones be hiding?

  14. A. says:

    Hey man, reading your smut entries during medical school classes makes lecture MUCH more entertaining. I need more to read so I would love to get into the password protected posts.

    Thanks.

  15. Christina says:

    Great writing-frank and funny.

  16. joeycherrypop says:

    Your writing is glorious, celebratory, proud and so, so hot, where have you been all my life?! Much love. X

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