miscellany

stuff that doesn’t fit in another category; often links or media

Elust #140 includes my story “Crave”

August 24th, 2021 • < 1 minute read • by

Call For Submissions: Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year Volume 7 (2023), due October 31, 2021

August 14th, 2021 • 2 minute read • by

Elust #139 includes “Kink 101 Resources”

July 28th, 2021 • < 1 minute read • by

Dirty Calligraphy

July 1st, 2021 • < 1 minute read • by

Someone Else Writes Worse Erotica Than You, I Promise

June 30th, 2021 • < 1 minute read • by

Elust 137 Includes “Creating A D/s Training Wheel”

May 27th, 2021 • < 1 minute read • by

Call for Submissions: The Good Sex Awards – Deadline: May 16, 2021

April 28th, 2021 • 2 minute read • by

What’s Happening in March (and Beyond): Best Lesbian Erotica Readings!

February 28th, 2021 • 2 minute read • by

Protected: First Look at a Secret Project

January 30th, 2021 • 2 minute read • by

What’s Happening in February (and Beyond)

January 29th, 2021 • 2 minute read • by

Countdown to Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year, Volume 5!

November 30th, 2020 • 2 minute read • by

What’s Happening in November (& Beyond)

November 9th, 2020 • 4 minute read • by

Pen Play: Online Erotica Writing Workshop Series

October 5th, 2020 • 4 minute read • by

Does Volunteering Make You Feel Better? PS: Ready to Vote?

September 30th, 2020 • 2 minute read • by

What’s Happening in September, 2020

September 2nd, 2020 • 3 minute read • by

Call For Submissions: Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year Volume 6 (2022), due October 31, 2020

August 3rd, 2020 • 2 minute read • by

Announcing: D/s Book Group & Nonbinary D/s Discussion Group

May 31st, 2020 • 2 minute read • by

Happy 14th Anniversary, Sugarbutch

April 29th, 2020 • 6 minute read • by

Sinclair & rife Are Leather Paper Dolls (& You Can Download Us!)

January 31st, 2020 • < 1 minute read • by

Which D/s Webinars Should rife + I Produce in 2020?

December 31st, 2019 • 2 minute read • by

Sugarbutch is #1 on the Kinkly Erotica Blogs and LGBTQ Blogs Lists

November 18th, 2019 • 3 minute read • by

Five Essential Apps for Sex Bloggers

October 31st, 2019 • 4 minute read • by

Call For Submissions: Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year Volume 5 (2021), due October 31, 2019

September 12th, 2019 • < 1 minute read • by

Announcing: D/s Playground! Summer 2019

May 13th, 2019 • 3 minute read • by

Fundamentals of the Protocol Game

April 15th, 2019 • 3 minute read • by

Using CoSchedule: Project Management, Editorial Calendar, & Social Media

January 17th, 2019 • 2 minute read • by

Announcing: D/s Webinars for Patrons

January 10th, 2019 • 2 minute read • by

Call for Submissions: Best Lesbian Erotica Volume 4

July 28th, 2018 • 2 minute read • by

Call for Submissions: Guest Posts on Sugarbutch

July 1st, 2018 • 2 minute read • by

Erotica, Journal Entries, and Feminist Kink: What I Wrote in 2017

December 31st, 2017 • 3 minute read • by

Announcement! The Novella Series is Here

December 10th, 2017 • 2 minute read • by

2017 Sex Blog Lists

October 31st, 2017 • 2 minute read • by

Happy Pride! Last Chance Submissive Playground Sale

June 27th, 2014 • 2 minute read • by

Submissive Playground Winner!

June 11th, 2014 • < 1 minute read • by

Check it out: New “Cock Confidence Guide”

May 20th, 2014 • < 1 minute read • by

Giveaway! Want a membership for Indie Porn Revolution? Of course you do.

April 25th, 2014 • < 1 minute read • by

Ready to explore “embodiment”? Three workshop offerings in Seattle & San Francisco in March & April

March 4th, 2014 • 6 minute read • by

On the road again … Portland + Princeton

February 4th, 2014 • 2 minute read • by

Ask Mr. Sexsmith: Didn’t you mention a marketing or business ecourse recently?

January 8th, 2014 • 2 minute read • by

Masocast podcast features … me! Also: Fancy Package on #subplay!

December 23rd, 2013 • 3 minute read • by

eLust #53 includes my “Pick a Hole. You Know What Happens Next.”

December 17th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by

What’s in our sex den? Books, of course.

December 6th, 2013 • < 1 minute read • by

Jiz Lee masturbating + a copy of Best Lesbian Erotica + snacks + wine + reading smut aloud + YOU = Queer Smut at the CSC next week ($20 cover)

December 6th, 2013 • < 1 minute read • by

The Gender Book’s crowdfunding campaign is funded! But you should still go buy a copy for yourself right now

December 4th, 2013 • 4 minute read • by

Do you like queer smut? Next week, I bet we can make you blush.

December 2nd, 2013 • 3 minute read • by

Free eBook Download: BDSM murder mystery about dogs & neighbors

November 11th, 2013 • < 1 minute read • by

Dirty Queer Sex Workshops in Seattle November 14-17

November 5th, 2013 • < 1 minute read • by

The hottest parts of the hottest parts of the stories: The Big Book of Orgasms

November 1st, 2013 • 3 minute read • by

The Great Reader Mini-Interview, part two

October 17th, 2013 • < 1 minute read • by

The Great Reader Mini-Interview, part 1: National Fisting Day, embracing gender complexities, and more

October 16th, 2013 • 3 minute read • by