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In Search of A Magic Carpet Sex Toy
February 1st, 2021 •
2
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Content Notes for Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year Volume 5 (Warning: Spoilers)
December 31st, 2020 •
4
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Countdown to Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year, Volume 5!
November 30th, 2020 •
2
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
DIY: Create Your Own Fist Dildo
October 31st, 2020 •
3
minute read • by
rife
Ahead of the Curve: The Documentary Film About Curve Magazine
October 21st, 2020 •
2
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Announcing: Table of Contents for Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year Volume 5 (2021)
October 10th, 2020 •
2
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Are Ejaculating Dildos Even A Thing? Yes!
August 31st, 2020 •
2
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Cock Confidence: The Sacred Act of Going Inside Someone Else’s Body
May 31st, 2020 •
2
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Will Anyone Else Want Strap-On Sex the Way I Do?
April 29th, 2020 •
3
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Hello, It Is Spring, Let’s Bloom (Playlist)
April 27th, 2020 •
4
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Feeling Yourself: Getting Acquainted With Your New Strap On
January 31st, 2020 •
4
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
There’s A New Packer & Stroker From New York Toy Collective: Meet Jack
December 30th, 2019 •
2
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Five Essential Apps for Sex Bloggers
October 31st, 2019 •
4
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Table of Contents for Best Lesbian Erotica Volume 4 (2020)
September 18th, 2019 •
2
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Plus Size Pegging: A Longer Dildo & Comfortable Harness
August 26th, 2019 •
2
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
An Enthusiastic Review of the Cowgirl Sex Machine
February 26th, 2019 •
3
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Cock Confidence: Uncut with Movable Foreskin
January 31st, 2019 •
4
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Cock Confidence: Zoro, by Perfect Fit
September 26th, 2018 •
2
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Introducing Erotix: Literary Journal of Somatics
July 29th, 2018 •
3
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Writing Ourselves Whole: Transformation, Healing, & Queer Sex
April 12th, 2018 •
5
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Which harnesses work with double dildos?
September 29th, 2017 •
4
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Review: Sam STP from New York Toy Collective
June 30th, 2017 •
3
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
#SexEdPornReviews: Episode 235 of Crash Pad Series, Featuring Mr Pink and Unkle Daddy
June 5th, 2017 •
2
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
The Best Uncut Strap-Ons: Uncut #1 by Tantus & Ellis by New York Toy Collective
January 31st, 2017 •
5
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Femming the Strap-On, Guest Post by Artemisia FemmeCock
July 28th, 2016 •
3
minute read • by
Artemisia FemmeCock
Five Blow Jobs on the Me & My Boi blog tour
June 15th, 2016 •
< 1
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Review: 4-in-1 Natural—Pack, Pee, Play, & Pleasure from FreeToM Prosthetics
April 19th, 2016 •
4
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
A Personal History of Best Lesbian Erotica
February 17th, 2016 •
4
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Review: Finally, an Ejaculating Dildo: The Semenette
January 30th, 2016 •
3
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
On the Importance of Queer, Women Centered, & Feminist Sex Toy Shops (Map)
December 27th, 2015 •
3
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Read These Books! (Perhaps Some Holiday Gift Ideas?)
November 27th, 2015 •
5
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Review: What’s the Best Wand Vibrator?
October 31st, 2015 •
8
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Review: Carter, The (Big!) Bendable Dildo by New York Toy Collective
July 31st, 2015 •
2
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
The Ten Sugarbutch Cock Commandments
September 26th, 2014 •
8
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
The Sugarbutch Guide to Cock Confidence: Soft Packing (Part 2)
August 7th, 2014 •
4
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
The Sugarbutch Guide to Cock Confidence: Soft Packing (Part 1)
July 31st, 2014 •
5
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Review: Butt toys from Adam + Eve
June 7th, 2014 •
2
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Review: Nipple Suction Toys (via the Stockroom)
May 28th, 2014 •
6
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Fantasy, Gardens, & Politics of Butch Identity in April’s Book Roundup
May 6th, 2014 •
5
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Giveaway! Want a membership for Indie Porn Revolution? Of course you do.
April 25th, 2014 •
< 1
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
The Longest Running Queer Porn Site, Courtney Trouble’s Indie Porn Revolution, is the April Feature
April 9th, 2014 •
2
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
March Book Roundup: Sex, sex, and more sex
April 3rd, 2014 •
8
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Review: Aneros Evi G-Spot Massager
March 9th, 2014 •
3
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
It’s Valentine’s Day, so here’s some Desert Island Toys
February 12th, 2014 •
< 1
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
February Feature: Crash Pad Series & strap-on queer porn scenes you gotta see
February 11th, 2014 •
3
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Devouring Magic: January Book Roundup
January 31st, 2014 •
4
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Gender, Poetry, and Smut: Current Recommended Reads
December 17th, 2013 •
4
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Ask Mr. Sexsmith: Tomboi vs RodeoH brief-style harness?
November 27th, 2013 •
2
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Review: Rug Beater Paddle, independent toy maker on Etsy
November 22nd, 2013 •
2
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Review: Bondage cuff and bow tie by Rand Leather
November 19th, 2013 •
2
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
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