It’s Valentine’s Day, so here’s some Desert Island Toys

February 12th, 2014 • < 1 minute read • by


February Feature: Crash Pad Series & strap-on queer porn scenes you gotta see

February 11th, 2014 • 3 minute read • by


Devouring Magic: January Book Roundup

January 31st, 2014 • 4 minute read • by


Gender, Poetry, and Smut: Current Recommended Reads

December 17th, 2013 • 4 minute read • by


Ask Mr. Sexsmith: Tomboi vs RodeoH brief-style harness?

November 27th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by


Review: Rug Beater Paddle, independent toy maker on Etsy

November 22nd, 2013 • 2 minute read • by


Review: Bondage cuff and bow tie by Rand Leather

November 19th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by


Review: Love Bump, aka Shilo’s Balls by New York Toy Collective

November 11th, 2013 • 3 minute read • by


Big Book of Orgasms: Blog Tour!

November 6th, 2013 • < 1 minute read • by


Review (& Photos!): Aslan Leather TG Chest Harness

October 27th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by


Ask Mr. Sexsmith: Help! I want a decent pack ‘n play cock!

September 8th, 2013 • 3 minute read • by


Review: Jam Body Tank, aka Compression Tank, aka Faux-Binder

August 21st, 2013 • 2 minute read • by


Beautiful & horrible: Cheryl’s book won the Lammy

June 9th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by


Writing your story is “an investment in one’s self,” and more from Amber Dawn

May 21st, 2013 • 5 minute read • by


A Dirty Excerpt from Carrie’s Story [Blog Tour]

March 29th, 2013 • 7 minute read • by


Carrie’s Story, Slow Surrender, and Other Things I’ve Been Devouring To Distract Myself

March 14th, 2013 • 4 minute read • by


Review: Shilo, the Bendable Silicone Packing Cock by NY Toy Collective

March 14th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by


“One True Thing,” Girlyman’s Tylan’s Solo Debut

March 10th, 2013 • < 1 minute read • by


Review: Leather Ever After edited by Sassafras Lowrey (book)

February 27th, 2013 • < 1 minute read • by


Fisting Day, Featuring Cyd & Essex

October 31st, 2012 • < 1 minute read • by


Review: Roving Pack by Sassafras Lowrey

October 25th, 2012 • < 1 minute read • by


Review: Lelo Tiani 2

October 3rd, 2012 • 3 minute read • by


Paws for Consideration: BDSM Mystery Scavenger Hunt Party Tomorrow in San Francisco

August 29th, 2012 • 2 minute read • by


Review: TranZwear Packing Undies

August 11th, 2012 • 2 minute read • by


The 24th Annual Lammys Brief Sugarbutch Recap

June 8th, 2012 • 2 minute read • by


Review: Aslan Leather Pleasure Harness (Customized) & Jaguar G

May 30th, 2012 • 3 minute read • by


RodeoH Boxer Brief Harness Giveaway Winner

May 8th, 2012 • < 1 minute read • by


The Harder She Comes edited by DL King (Book)

May 6th, 2012 • 4 minute read • by


Recent Other Books of Note: New Works by Barbara Carrellas, Kate Bornstein, Diana Cage, & Tristan Taormino

April 27th, 2012 • 2 minute read • by


Review: Double Agent Dildo

April 27th, 2012 • 2 minute read • by


The New Album By Lindsay Fuller, “You, Anniversary”

March 27th, 2012 • < 1 minute read • by


Ecstasy is Necessary! The New Book by Barbara Carrellas

March 8th, 2012 • 4 minute read • by


Which Side Are You On? (The New Ani Difranco Album)

January 18th, 2012 • 2 minute read • by


I Confess: Favorite Music from 2011

January 4th, 2012 • 4 minute read • by


Kate Bornstein’s “Queer & Pleasant Danger”

December 16th, 2011 • 2 minute read • by


Review: Sexing the Transman XXX DVD

December 9th, 2011 • < 1 minute read • by


The Sugarbutch 2012 Holiday Gift Guide

November 30th, 2011 • 6 minute read • by


I Know What I Want: Introduction to Best Lesbian Erotica 2012

November 28th, 2011 • 5 minute read • by


Take a Tour of Kink.com in San Francisco

November 28th, 2011 • 2 minute read • by


Review: The Big Book of Pussy

November 18th, 2011 • 2 minute read • by


The Hanky Flower: Femme Flagging

October 26th, 2011 • < 1 minute read • by


Review: RodeoH Harness

October 17th, 2011 • 3 minute read • by


Review: Taxi Volume I (DVD)

October 12th, 2011 • 2 minute read • by


Review: Comparing Two Ejaculating Cocks

October 11th, 2011 • 3 minute read • by


Review: Salacious Magazine #2, Voyeurism

October 5th, 2011 • < 1 minute read • by


The Sissy 2012 Wall Calendar

October 2nd, 2011 • < 1 minute read • by


Review: Sheets by Vice Merchants

September 13th, 2011 • < 1 minute read • by


Review: The Tantus Realdoe

September 8th, 2011 • 2 minute read • by


Review: Crystal Delights Butt Plug

September 7th, 2011 • < 1 minute read • by


Review: I’ll Show You Mine (Book)

September 2nd, 2011 • < 1 minute read • by