8against8: Ban gay divorce instead
I don’t know about you, but I could really use a good laugh about all of this gay marriage / presidential election activism. I got…
I don’t know about you, but I could really use a good laugh about all of this gay marriage / presidential election activism. I got…
Here’s a brief little break in the political activism of this week to bring you a small announcement about a (free!) film screening TOMORROW in…
What a better place to start on the 8against8 activist week than to highlight the first lesbian couple to be wed in California after the…
On October 6th, 1998, Matthew Shepard was tied to a fence in Laramie, Wyoming, beaten, and left for dead – because he was gay. He…
Oh, femmes. Damn you and your hotness, and the ways it undoes me to see you retire your flirty ballet flats for tall boots, to…
I am not noticed much in New York City. My recent trip to Washington State’s Olympic Penninsula reminded me of this and I’ve been more…
One of my favorite sex toy stores ever sent me the Pfun Plug by Njoy a few months ago. Literally, months ago. I think it…
Those of you who are RSS readers will not see the small banner in the sidebar about the fate of Bitch Magazine, so I figured…
Really? I mean, really? My story The Creation Myth won the first ever BSB writer’s contest, and I am taking home this fabulous For Your…
This is what I learned at the Femme Conference. Oh, the Femme Conference. I have so much to say about what happened there, both personally…
Uh … wow. I am kind of at a loss here. Rori at Between My Sheets emailed out last night that the Top 100 Sex…
Yep, it’s the Goodfella from Vixen Creation’s Vixskin line. I have yet to come across any cock that is superior to the texture, feel, realistic-ness,…
As of 2/8/16 This product is no longer available at Babeland If you have ever stopped by one of Babeland’s brick-and-mortar stores (Seattle, LA, New…
Thanks, all, for your thoughtful responses and life stories about butch hair in the last post. Here’s a few of my thoughts about femmes and…
The winner of the delicious new anthology by Rachel Kramer Bussel is saintchick, with this submission about a great time she was spanked: My ex…
If I had a red pen that worked on internet web pages, I would go around and circle all the places where “Sugarbutch Chronicles” appears…
What’s the difference between romance and chivalry? Colleen and I had an interesting discussion a while back. The two can look nearly identical, we thought…
I’ve been adopting the word “transmasculine” to use to describe, generally, folks who were assigned female at birth who are male-identified, masculine, and/or masculinely presenting,…
July was a big month! I’m refining the topics & categories that I’m beginning to consistently write here, and I like the columns I’ve started…
Lady Brett has a new post over at her fabulous blog Don’t Let’s Talk about feminism and housewifery, and I left a rather long-ish comment,…
I still remember the day I had an awakening about my underwear, much like my butch breasts / bras moment a few weeks back, where…
Seems like I kinda stepped in it with this entire intentional gender thing! Lots of comments and emails about that one. (Almost as bad as…
One of my particularly favorite sex toy stores sent me a slew of packing cocks to review – cocks that aren’t necessarily hard enough to…
Weekend, part one: flogging I slid my cock inside her swiftly and she took it easily. Let out a little cry, lifted her ankles around…
You may remember Mary Roach from the book Stiff: The Curious Lives of Human Cadavers, which made a big splash a few years back, especially…
A few of you have asked about the Sugasm and why I post it … basically, in order to be part of the Sugasm, blog…
Yet another case in point: Butch, skinhead, wife-beating, pint drinkers? “Butch, femme, dyke – what kind of lesbian are you? Jeni Quirke explores the negativity surrounding…
How do I love Babeland … let me count the ways. Well, so first, they asked me if I’d like to review the Papillion vibrator….
“You could come to my house. I have a dress you could borrow for work tomorrow.” “Uh, I appreciate that, but, ya know, I think…
Here’s a secret: I’m quite insecure about my ability to go down on a girl. There are a few clear reasons for this. The Ex,…
I haven’t been posting much of substance here since the heated discussion On Misperceiving Someone as Femme or Butch and the follow up post. This lack…
Okay, on a lighter note? I didn’t mention it two weeks ago, when Penny and I had our last date, but we broke my cock…
Crossdressing: Erotic Stories Edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel “Some people might call this a fantasy, but it’s my deepest truth.” – from “Temporary” by Tulsa…
I’m in Salt Lake City for the long weekend, so hopefully I’ll have some time to catch up on writing and these questions. Thanks for…
I posted a sexmix last year, in August, but I’m constantly revising my playlists. This is the current sexmix tracklist. This is not, however, the music…
I offered up answering any question that was asked today – you can still ask a question until, oh, let’s say, midnight tonight. These are…
I put an earring in my left ear over the weekend, a simple stainless steel hoop that goes through two of the four holes I…
I ran across some photos this week of me and jesse james and georgia from almost exactly six years ago – I remember that night…
I often get asked about how to start playing with strap-on sex, how to get your partner to stop laughing during strap-on sex, how to…
I wrote a post about Callie, and how we met, how we started dating, over at The Lesbian Lifestyle for their March discussion topic about…
March was jam-packed here at Sugarbutch Chronicles; it was the second highest month of posts (37) and included various topics and discussions. Thank you all…
… that Sinclair is single again, and dating. Spring is hovering just around the corner, and New York as a whole can feel it. The…
A response to the girl who posted that awful rant against female masculinity on Craigslist from The Closet Musician, one of my very best friends….
Sex The Therapy Session: she took my fingers deep into her mouth like she does, letting me feel her throat and the back of her…
I’ve added a Definitions page, for a brief introduction to some definitions of terms I often use in my analytical/theoretical discussions of sex, gender, &…
One of the first things I thought, really, was, why the fuck does it have glitter and little hearts all over it? Doesn’t that seems…
I can’t figure out how to shut the door or turn on the light, but then finally I push hard enough, flip the latch, and…
Sugarbutch Chronicles is a finalist for the Lesbian Blog of the Year Award from The Lesbian Lifestyle! Thanks so much to all of you who…
I’ve been to many of these Body Electric workshops for women over the past 8 years or so, and I can’t recommend them highly enough….
Best of the best, baby. Here’s your weekly Sugasm features: A Fable “They start touching her, gingerly at first, wondering what magic is in her.” Fiction:…