In Search of A Magic Carpet Sex Toy

February 1st, 2021 • 2 minute read • by


Protected: First Look at a Secret Project

January 30th, 2021 • 2 minute read • by


Protected: And What A Celebration It Was

July 24th, 2020 • < 1 minute read • by


Protected: Welcome

July 24th, 2020 • < 1 minute read • by


Happy 14th Anniversary, Sugarbutch

April 29th, 2020 • 6 minute read • by


I’m Still Not Tired of Your Company, aka A Valentine

February 17th, 2020 • 2 minute read • by


Resources For Sex & Chronic Pain

January 20th, 2020 • 2 minute read • by


Cartography of Control: A Map For Areas of Dominance & Submission

December 31st, 2019 • 3 minute read • by


Protected: I’m Struggling with Thanksgiving

November 27th, 2019 • 4 minute read • by


Five Essential Apps for Sex Bloggers

October 31st, 2019 • 4 minute read • by


Harvest weekend photo essay, and congratulations Ms Sacramento Leather 2019!

October 31st, 2019 • < 1 minute read • by


These Eight Years

September 30th, 2019 • 3 minute read • by


Protected: On Inheriting Leather

August 30th, 2019 • < 1 minute read • by


Protected: Writing About D/s Online

August 29th, 2019 • 4 minute read • by


Protected: Two

July 7th, 2019 • 2 minute read • by


Protected: Spirolic Breaking

June 30th, 2019 • 4 minute read • by


Protected: On the Verge

March 29th, 2019 • 7 minute read • by


Protected: integrating the past

February 28th, 2019 • 5 minute read • by


Kintsugi

June 15th, 2018 • 2 minute read • by


Protected: oracle cards

March 15th, 2018 • 4 minute read • by


Protected: sitting with it

March 7th, 2018 • 3 minute read • by


The End of Innocence, Guest Post by Guy New York

January 30th, 2018 • 9 minute read • by


Erotica, Journal Entries, and Feminist Kink: What I Wrote in 2017

December 31st, 2017 • 3 minute read • by


Protected: #metoo

October 26th, 2017 • 5 minute read • by


Protected: “BDSM educator leader lecture”

October 26th, 2017 • 3 minute read • by


Protected: for giving

September 30th, 2017 • 7 minute read • by


Protected: sixteen things

September 12th, 2017 • 4 minute read • by


Protected: ice cream & whiskey, see you in December

August 31st, 2017 • 2 minute read • by


Protected: We got married.

July 14th, 2017 • 2 minute read • by


“Even between the closest people infinite distances exist.”

June 30th, 2017 • 3 minute read • by


Protected: give up

June 14th, 2017 • < 1 minute read • by


Protected: nonline

June 4th, 2017 • 5 minute read • by


Protected: high vs low

May 17th, 2017 • 5 minute read • by


Protected: rose

March 10th, 2017 • 3 minute read • by


Protected: Dear President Obama

January 22nd, 2017 • 2 minute read • by


Protected: “Your idols are dead and your enemies are in power.”

January 1st, 2017 • 2 minute read • by


Protected: new, new, new

December 9th, 2016 • 4 minute read • by


Protected: November was a fuck of a month, wasn’t it?

December 2nd, 2016 • 8 minute read • by


Protected: unapologetic demanding dominance

August 2nd, 2016 • 3 minute read • by


Protected: three months

August 1st, 2016 • 5 minute read • by


Protected: diagnosis & meds

May 23rd, 2016 • 2 minute read • by


Protected: strong little room

May 22nd, 2016 • 4 minute read • by


Protected: green-eyed monster

May 19th, 2016 • 3 minute read • by


Protected: learning to stop leaning

May 19th, 2016 • 3 minute read • by


Protected: something new every day

May 16th, 2016 • 4 minute read • by


Protected: the contract amendment

May 14th, 2016 • 2 minute read • by


Protected: couple’s therapy #1

May 14th, 2016 • 4 minute read • by


Protected: resolve

May 6th, 2016 • < 1 minute read • by