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Protected: Stepdown Video: “So How Was Your Title Year?”
March 31st, 2021 •
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Sinclair Sexsmith
Protected: Ostara: Happy Spring
March 31st, 2021 •
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Sinclair Sexsmith
Preparation
January 31st, 2021 •
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Sinclair Sexsmith
Survival Tools for a Pandemic
January 31st, 2021 •
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Sinclair Sexsmith
Protected: First Look at a Secret Project
January 30th, 2021 •
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Sinclair Sexsmith
Meeting Jason, Guest Post by Marcel Yeung
December 31st, 2020 •
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Marcel Yeung
Protected: Ode, Part 1
December 31st, 2020 •
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Sinclair Sexsmith
Protected: There Are Gifts In the Dark. Happy Solstice
December 22nd, 2020 •
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Sinclair Sexsmith
Countdown to Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year, Volume 5!
November 30th, 2020 •
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Sinclair Sexsmith
Protected: Further Adventures in Photos
November 30th, 2020 •
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Is “Butch” A Nonbinary Identity?
October 31st, 2020 •
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Sinclair Sexsmith
DIY: Create Your Own Fist Dildo
October 31st, 2020 •
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rife
Ahead of the Curve: The Documentary Film About Curve Magazine
October 21st, 2020 •
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Sinclair Sexsmith
I vote in every election because …
October 17th, 2020 •
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Sinclair Sexsmith
Pen Play: Online Erotica Writing Workshop Series
October 5th, 2020 •
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Sinclair Sexsmith
Protected: Sheltering in September
September 30th, 2020 •
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Sinclair Sexsmith
Sobriety Sestina During COVID-19
September 30th, 2020 •
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Sinclair Sexsmith
Does Volunteering Make You Feel Better? PS: Ready to Vote?
September 30th, 2020 •
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Sinclair Sexsmith
What’s Happening in September, 2020
September 2nd, 2020 •
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Sinclair Sexsmith
Are Ejaculating Dildos Even A Thing? Yes!
August 31st, 2020 •
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Sinclair Sexsmith
The Impact of M/s Language: Voices from the Community
July 31st, 2020 •
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Sinclair Sexsmith
On Representing the M/s Title
July 31st, 2020 •
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Sinclair Sexsmith
Protected: leaping into something new
July 24th, 2020 •
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Sinclair Sexsmith
Protected: Welcome
July 24th, 2020 •
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Protected: why write about sex during times like this
May 31st, 2020 •
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Sinclair Sexsmith
Sheltering 1: Things I Have Learned
May 29th, 2020 •
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Protected: Looking at a Title Year
March 31st, 2020 •
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Sinclair Sexsmith
Rest Is Important, You’re Right It Isn’t Fair, and Other Things I Need To Hear Right Now
March 31st, 2020 •
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Sinclair Sexsmith
Some Notes That May Turn Into A Sex Manifesto
March 31st, 2020 •
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Sinclair Sexsmith
Take My Whip: Fantasy Date Night, Guest Post by rife
March 28th, 2020 •
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rife
“There Are Others Like You:” Interview with Rowdy, rife’s Puppy
February 18th, 2020 •
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rife
I’m Still Not Tired of Your Company, aka A Valentine
February 17th, 2020 •
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Sinclair Sexsmith
Feeling Yourself: Getting Acquainted With Your New Strap On
January 31st, 2020 •
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Sinclair Sexsmith
Which D/s Webinars Should rife + I Produce in 2020?
December 31st, 2019 •
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Sinclair Sexsmith
Cartography of Control: A Map For Areas of Dominance & Submission
December 31st, 2019 •
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Sinclair Sexsmith
Five Essential Apps for Sex Bloggers
October 31st, 2019 •
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Sinclair Sexsmith
Harvest weekend photo essay, and congratulations Ms Sacramento Leather 2019!
October 31st, 2019 •
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Sinclair Sexsmith
Protected: Just personal things. Hi.
October 31st, 2019 •
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Sinclair Sexsmith
Protected: Two
July 7th, 2019 •
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Sinclair Sexsmith
Protected: Under Water
June 18th, 2019 •
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Kintsugi
June 15th, 2018 •
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Sinclair Sexsmith
Protected: knife of wands
May 28th, 2018 •
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