This site contains explicit writings on kink practices, dominant/submissive relationships, and queer kink erotica (among other things). All characters in role play or non-consent scenes are consenting adults. Content warnings are included.
This is the collection of reviews, recommendations, and how-tos about strapping on that I’ve written since 2006. If you have questions or things you don’t see here, please ask!
Reviews & articles
- Try This Sex Toy Combo: Clit Pump + Transthetics Joystick
- Cock Confidence: The RodeoH Slyder (Review)
- In Search of A Magic Carpet Sex Toy
- Are Ejaculating Dildos Even A Thing? Yes!
- Cock Confidence: The Sacred Act of Going Inside Someone Else's Body
- Will Anyone Else Want Strap-On Sex the Way I Do?
- Feeling Yourself: Getting Acquainted With Your New Strap On
- There’s A New Packer & Stroker From New York Toy Collective: Meet Jack
- Plus Size Pegging: A Longer Dildo & Comfortable Harness
- Cock Confidence: Uncut with Movable Foreskin
- Cock Confidence: Zoro, by Perfect Fit
- Which harnesses work with double dildos?
- Review: Sam STP from New York Toy Collective
- The Best Uncut Strap-Ons: Uncut #1 by Tantus & Ellis by New York Toy Collective
- Femming the Strap-On, Guest Post by Artemisia FemmeCock
- Review: 4-in-1 Natural—Pack, Pee, Play, & Pleasure from FreeToM Prosthetics
- Review: Finally, an Ejaculating Dildo: The Semenette
- Review: Carter, The (Big!) Bendable Dildo by New York Toy Collective
- The Ten Sugarbutch Cock Commandments
- The Sugarbutch Guide to Cock Confidence: Soft Packing (Part 2)
- The Sugarbutch Guide to Cock Confidence: Soft Packing (Part 1)
- Ask Mr. Sexsmith: Tomboi vs RodeoH brief-style harness?
- Review: Love Bump, aka Shilo's Balls by New York Toy Collective
- Ask Mr. Sexsmith: Help! I want a decent pack 'n play cock!
- Review: Shilo, the Bendable Silicone Packing Cock by NY Toy Collective
- Review: TranZwear Packing Undies
- Review: Aslan Leather Pleasure Harness (Customized) & Jaguar G
- Review: Double Agent Dildo
- Review: RodeoH Harness
- Review: Comparing Two Ejaculating Cocks
- Review: The Tantus Realdoe
- Ask Me Anything: How to Give Blow Jobs Without Feeling Stupid
- Review: A Couple STP (Stand to Pee) Devices
- Ask Me Anything: Strapping On For the First Time
- Cock Confidence: How Not To Slip Out When Strapped On
- Ask Me Anything: Strap-On Positions When Someone is Taller
- Review: Belladonna's Strapped Dykes (DVD)
- The Sugarbutch Guide to Cock Confidence: Pack & Play
- Cocksexual: Because Everyone Can Have Fun With Cocks
- Review: Tantus VIP Super Soft
- Review: Leather Pleasure Harness by Aslan Leather
- Review: Talula
- Cock Confidence: Spur by Vixen Creations (Review)
- Review: Slick G Harness by Aslan Leather
- Review: Deluxe Packing Pouch
- Review: Silk
- Review: Black Cat G (Harness)
- Cock Confidence: Buck by Vixen Creations (Review)
- Dear Mr. Sexsmith: Packing
- Dear Mr. Sexsmith: Harnesses for Plus-Sized Women?
- “Is it a trans characteristic to wear a cock?”: Cock-centricity and Gender Identity
- Review: Lonestar
- Cocks & Harnesses Recommendations
- Keeping a Leather Harness Clean
- Review: Randy, The New Big Cock
- Cock Confidence: Bandit by Vixen Creations
- Cock Confidence: The Outlaw by Vixen Creations (Review)
- Clit Pumping: How to Grow
- Cock Confidence and the KinkForAll Conference
- Cock Confidence: Johnny by Vixen Creations (Review)
- Review: Jaguar Harness
- Review: Simply Sexy Leather Harness
- Review: Goodfella
- Review: Spartacus Leathers
- Cock Confidence: Goodfella from Vixen Creations
- Review: Undercover Harness
- Review: Packing Cocks 101
- Review: Share Double Dildo, and Two Vibrators
- Mr. Bendy Strap-On Cock Broke, Again
- Review: Feeldoe Stout double dildo
- Review: Bare As You Dare Harness
- Review: Vibrating Clitoral Pump
- Review: Mia-Z (harness)
- Review: Silky aka Mr. Bendy, My Very Favorite Cock
- Try This Sex Toy Combo: Clit Pump + Transthetics Joystick
- Cock Confidence: The RodeoH Slyder (Review)
- In Search of A Magic Carpet Sex Toy
- Are Ejaculating Dildos Even A Thing? Yes!
- Cock Confidence: The Sacred Act of Going Inside Someone Else's Body
- Will Anyone Else Want Strap-On Sex the Way I Do?
- Feeling Yourself: Getting Acquainted With Your New Strap On
- There’s A New Packer & Stroker From New York Toy Collective: Meet Jack
- Plus Size Pegging: A Longer Dildo & Comfortable Harness
- Cock Confidence: Uncut with Movable Foreskin
- Cock Confidence: Zoro, by Perfect Fit
- Which harnesses work with double dildos?
- Review: Sam STP from New York Toy Collective
- The Best Uncut Strap-Ons: Uncut #1 by Tantus & Ellis by New York Toy Collective
- Femming the Strap-On, Guest Post by Artemisia FemmeCock
- Review: 4-in-1 Natural—Pack, Pee, Play, & Pleasure from FreeToM Prosthetics
- Review: Finally, an Ejaculating Dildo: The Semenette
- Review: Carter, The (Big!) Bendable Dildo by New York Toy Collective
- The Ten Sugarbutch Cock Commandments
- The Sugarbutch Guide to Cock Confidence: Soft Packing (Part 2)
- The Sugarbutch Guide to Cock Confidence: Soft Packing (Part 1)
- Ask Mr. Sexsmith: Tomboi vs RodeoH brief-style harness?
- Review: Love Bump, aka Shilo's Balls by New York Toy Collective
- Ask Mr. Sexsmith: Help! I want a decent pack 'n play cock!
- Review: Shilo, the Bendable Silicone Packing Cock by NY Toy Collective
- Review: TranZwear Packing Undies
- Review: Aslan Leather Pleasure Harness (Customized) & Jaguar G
- Review: Double Agent Dildo
- Review: RodeoH Harness
- Review: Comparing Two Ejaculating Cocks
- Review: The Tantus Realdoe
- Ask Me Anything: How to Give Blow Jobs Without Feeling Stupid
- Review: A Couple STP (Stand to Pee) Devices
- Ask Me Anything: Strapping On For the First Time
- Cock Confidence: How Not To Slip Out When Strapped On
- Ask Me Anything: Strap-On Positions When Someone is Taller
- Review: Belladonna's Strapped Dykes (DVD)
- The Sugarbutch Guide to Cock Confidence: Pack & Play
- Cocksexual: Because Everyone Can Have Fun With Cocks
- Review: Tantus VIP Super Soft
- Review: Leather Pleasure Harness by Aslan Leather
- Review: Talula
- Cock Confidence: Spur by Vixen Creations (Review)
- Review: Slick G Harness by Aslan Leather
- Review: Deluxe Packing Pouch
- Review: Silk
- Review: Black Cat G (Harness)
- Cock Confidence: Buck by Vixen Creations (Review)
- Dear Mr. Sexsmith: Packing
- Dear Mr. Sexsmith: Harnesses for Plus-Sized Women?
- “Is it a trans characteristic to wear a cock?”: Cock-centricity and Gender Identity
- Review: Lonestar
- Cocks & Harnesses Recommendations
- Keeping a Leather Harness Clean
- Review: Randy, The New Big Cock
- Cock Confidence: Bandit by Vixen Creations
- Cock Confidence: The Outlaw by Vixen Creations (Review)
- Clit Pumping: How to Grow
- Cock Confidence and the KinkForAll Conference
- Cock Confidence: Johnny by Vixen Creations (Review)
- Review: Jaguar Harness
- Review: Simply Sexy Leather Harness
- Review: Goodfella
- Review: Spartacus Leathers
- Cock Confidence: Goodfella from Vixen Creations
- Review: Undercover Harness
- Review: Packing Cocks 101
- Review: Share Double Dildo, and Two Vibrators
- Mr. Bendy Strap-On Cock Broke, Again
- Review: Feeldoe Stout double dildo
- Review: Bare As You Dare Harness
- Review: Vibrating Clitoral Pump
- Review: Mia-Z (harness)
- Review: Silky aka Mr. Bendy, My Very Favorite Cock
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