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Dirty Stories
- Titrate My Urges, Chapter 1 (continued)
- Titrate My Urges: Chapter 1 (Untitled, Unpublished Novel Excerpt)
- This Isn't New
- Milk, Part Two
- Cinnamon Breakfast, Guest Post by Callie Gibson
- Milk, Part One
- Could I Get A Ride, Guest Post by Betty Shade
- Climax, Guest Post by rife
- Listen To Your Skin: Erotica Reading [Recording]
- Let’s Watch a Porno, Guest Post by Louise Kane
- Meeting Jason, Guest Post by Marcel Yeung
- Ode, Part 1
- First Time With Daddy, Guest Post by Kimberly Dark (Excerpt from The Daddies)
- Take My Whip: Fantasy Date Night, Guest Post by rife
- Let It All Go, Boy: Part Two, Guest Post by Sonya Bolus
- Let It All Go, Boy: Part One, Guest Post by Sonya Bolus
- Down by the River, Guest Post by Anna Sansom
- Touch, Devour, Swallow
- A Good Beating, Guest Post by Xan West
- A Moaning Mess of a Girl, Guest Post by Kiki DeLovely
- Frisson, Guest Post by Kathleen Delaney-Adams
- Are You Game? Guest Post by Dilo Keith
- Ariadne's Thread, Guest Post by Jean Roberta
- You Asked Me About My Fantasies, Guest Post by Kitty Faut
- Whatever I Want, Whatever I Say
- I Know Where You Live, Guest Post by Raki Kopernik
- Show Me You Want It
- Stone Femmes Should Be Called Diamonds, Guest Post by R. Magdalen
- I Want To Be Brutal.
- Getting Wood, Guest Post by Morris Danielson
Essays
- The Relationship Smorgasbord
- Nonbinary Honorific Terms for a Dominant
- Lex Isn't Just For Dating, It's Also For Tenderqueers (and Me, and Maybe You)
- Five Great Kink Podcasts You Should Be Listening To Already
- D/s Protocol Ideas For You To Try
- How To Use Check Ins In Your D/s Relationship
- Tools For Stepping Up D/s
- The Aftermath
- Creating a D/s Training Wheel
- Fearless Relationship Inventory, Guest Post by rife
- 9 Ideas to Support Your D/s During Hard Times
- Is "Butch" A Nonbinary Identity?
- DIY: Create Your Own Fist Dildo
- Happy #InternationalPronounDay!
- This Is A Conversation About Duties: On M/s Language
- I'm Voting Biden/Harris, But I Still Want A Dyke For President
- The Impact of M/s Language: Voices from the Community
- On Representing the M/s Title
- On Stepping Away From M/s Language
- 6 Black Educators to Follow & Support on Patreon
- Breath as a Healing Tool During COVID-19 with M'kali-Hashiki
- Some Notes That May Turn Into A Sex Manifesto
- "There Are Others Like You:" Interview with Rowdy, rife's Puppy
- Ready to Make Waves: Two Recent Inspirational Leather Speeches
- Resources For Sex & Chronic Pain
- Cartography of Control: A Map For Areas of Dominance & Submission
- No, You Don't "Get" Racism Because You Are Oppressed, Too
- Five Essential Apps for Sex Bloggers
- Bi-Erasure, Community, and Other Thoughts on Bisexual Visibility Day
- Writing About D/s Online
Poetry
- Sea Water
- Preparation
- Sobriety Sestina During COVID-19
- Sixteen
- The First Time With A Girl
- Poem for My Name
- A Poem About Worship & Worth
- I Want to Tell You
- Trauma Is Your Teacher
- She Is There In the Bed
- A Poem for the Closing of Workshops
- king of disks
- instructions on not giving up
- Liquid Smoke
- Advice to Myself
- That Moment When My Dad Reaches Out His Hand For Me To Grasp
- 14 ways of looking at New York
- Vortex Poem, Or: What I learned these last 15 years of studying embodiment
- "I wish I could show you ... the astonishing light of your own being."
- Where I Come From
Reviews
- Announcing: The Table of Contents for Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year Volume 6
- Cover Reveal: Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year Volume 6
- Try This Sex Toy Combo: Clit Pump + Transthetics Joystick
- Cock Confidence: The RodeoH Slyder (Review)
- Kink 101: Books, Websites, and Other Resources for Someone New to Kink
- Ten Erotic Films Better Than 50 Shades of Grey
- What I'm Reading, including Felix Ever After
- Best Lesbian Erotica Volume 5 is a Lammy Finalist!
- 6 Kink Books by Black Authors
- In Search of A Magic Carpet Sex Toy
- Content Notes for Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year Volume 5 (Warning: Spoilers)
- Countdown to Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year, Volume 5!
- DIY: Create Your Own Fist Dildo
- Ahead of the Curve: The Documentary Film About Curve Magazine
- Announcing: Table of Contents for Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year Volume 5 (2021)
- Are Ejaculating Dildos Even A Thing? Yes!
- Cock Confidence: The Sacred Act of Going Inside Someone Else's Body
- Will Anyone Else Want Strap-On Sex the Way I Do?
- Hello, It Is Spring, Let's Bloom (Playlist)
- Feeling Yourself: Getting Acquainted With Your New Strap On