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Mailing Lists & How to Get the Password

Posted on by Sinclair Sexsmith

Sugarbutch Chronicles has two different mailing lists, and one way to get the password to the protected posts. Since I’ve had a few more password posts than usual lately, I’ve had some folks asking, so it’s about time to put up a new explanation.

1. The Newsletter

The newsletter is the once-a-month mailing list where I send out announcements about the site, special offers (sometimes I have passwords or offer codes from some Sugarbutch sponsors), and general updates. Email me – aspiringstud[at]gmail.com – to get on this mailing list, or leave a comment with your valid email address in the comments of this post.

2. Sugarbutch Daily to your email inbox

If you aren’t really a “blog person,” if you don’t read half the internet every day (like I do), if you don’t subscribe to RSS feeds and spend a lot of your time on the web, but you still love reading Sugarbutch, you might want to consider subscribing via email.

Entering your email address in below will send you ONE email per day with the text of all the posts that have been published that day. If there are no posts, you won’t get an email.

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3. Password protected posts

The password protected posts tend to be more personal, often musings about my own self-awareness, emotional processes, or the details of my relationships, which often feel vulnerable in a way that writing about sex does not (I know, weird, but that’s how it is). (Sometimes they are very smutty, dirty stories, with kinks or explorations that are dark and difficult to reveal – so it’s not all omphaloskepsis, there is some sex stuff too, sometimes.)

To get access to the password protected posts, join the Patreon at http://patreon.com/mrsexsmith. More information on the Patreon and the password protected posts here.

Published by Sinclair Sexsmith

Sinclair Sexsmith (they/them) is "the best-known butch erotica writer whose kinky, groundbreaking stories have turned on countless queers" (AfterEllen), who "is in all the books, wins all the awards, speaks at all the panels and readings, knows all the stuff, and writes for all the places" (Autostraddle). ​Their short story collection, Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica, was a 2016 finalist for a Lambda Literary Award, and they are the current editor of the Best Lesbian Erotica series. They identify as a white non-binary butch dominant, a survivor, and an introvert, and they live outside Seattle as an uninvited settler on traditional, ancestral, & unceded Snoqualmie land.

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347 thoughts on “Mailing Lists & How to Get the Password”

  2. k k miller says:

    I have no website,facebook,etc. but would appreciate the password. Reading your site has helped me embrace and accept my butch genderqueer self. I now understand myself . P.S. My beautiful femme of 20 years is also greatful.

    Reply
  3. carrie says:

    I love your blog. Can I get the password for the password protected posts please?

    Reply
  5. bifemmefatale says:

    Hi, we've exchanged emails once before. I'd love the password to your protected posts, as the relationship between bdsm, feminism and gender presentation is something I think about a lot from the femme sub side.

    Reply
  6. Krys J says:

    May I have the password? Pretty please???

    Reply
  9. collagen says:

    hi, love reading your posts and would love the password. my tumblr is kind of weird, but i promise that i'm a human.

    Reply
  10. Airish says:

    I've been a reader/fan for a very long time. Can I please have the password? I don't have a blog of my own YET- but I think this will be my year.

    I am a real person. Thank you for all of your work on this blog.

    Reply
  13. Katie says:

    Would LOVE the password. Can't wait to start reading. :)

    Reply
  14. Arienne says:

    I've loved reading your stuff for a few years now & enjoyed a number of the stories, but never bothered with the more private posts.. but now I'm curious about a few! ;)

    I don't have facebook or anything, just email. I hope that's ok.

    Password please?

    xxo,

    Arienne

    Reply
  15. Johanna says:

    Would love the password…thanks ;)

    Reply
  16. Sully says:

    I am a real person, though I don't have a facebook account, or a myspace account.

    I do have a fetlife account. I'm sully69. Will that get me the password?

    Reply
  20. Gina says:

    love your blog…it inspires me. please send the passwords for the protected posts. thanks.

    Reply
  21. hrafn says:

    I'd like to get the password, too, please!

    Reply
  22. Sofy says:

    hey, cant stop reading you! Do want more hehe :)

    Reply
  23. M says:

    password please?

    have left website link as proof of real personhood.

    Reply
  24. Jen says:

    i'm real!! :) password please?

    Reply
  25. Lain says:

    been trying to comment, but it hasn't been working – apologies if this is a multiple post! am fascinated by your writing (though from the opposite point of view…) and would love to read more. may i have the password?

    link here: http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=6802701&am…

    Reply
  26. Mel says:

    Just started to read and love your writing style. Would be thrilled to read the newsletter & the password-protected posts.

    Real-person credentials above.

    Reply
  27. Jen says:

    my comment on 1/7 was approved, but i have not received a email containing the password…did i do something incorrectly? :)

    Reply
  30. Tree says:

    Password? I heard you speak a few weeks ago – it was wonderful. I'm real. I promise.

    Reply
  31. RB Axtell says:

    Could I get the password please? Thanks.

    Reply
  32. Andie says:

    Password please? I have read so many wonderful things that have really hit home with some of the issues I have been working through recently.

    Reply
  33. meldyke says:

    may i have the password please? real email from my real personness above; you can also try http://tinyurl.com/ycwkugn. :) thanks!

    Reply
  34. Madeleine says:

    May I have the password for protected posts?

    Thank You!

    Reply
  36. Ariel Chance says:

    A friend just linked me to your site and said that you were her new blogger crush. Reading your posts, I can see why. I'd love the password and Newsletter, please!

    Reply
  37. b says:

    Could i please have the password?

    Reply
  41. Meadhbh Hamrick says:

    i too am a real person. well. okay. i'm a real enough person to read about freewill and wonder whether the absence of freewill makes me a real person. okay. that's my last comment about freewill and predetermination. honest. unless i'm predestined to say another one.

    Reply
  42. Ciara says:

    I've never had a myspace or facebook. I've been reading here for at least a year and am very curious about the protected posts, though. Email me if you're going to give me the password or not. I'll prove myself for it.

    Reply
  43. xuuya says:

    Your smut is thought-provoking and your gender theory musings are hot. Password, please.

    facebook: di couz

    Thanks for writing.

    Reply
  44. Michael says:

    Everything I read here is a heady mix of smart, dirty, compelling, and fascinating. I have been tempted to go through the archives and read from the beginning, and I'd love to see everything that's available to be read. Thanks!

    Reply
  45. Jenny says:

    I've been lurking here for awhile now, and really enjoying everything you've written. I'd love to be able to read the password protected stuff, too. Also, I am a real person: http://www.facebook.com/chrematisai?ref=name

    Thanks!

    Reply
  46. RM says:

    I'd like the password, please. This never used twitter account is the best I can do.

    Reply
  47. Monica says:

    Hi there! Very much a real femme lady. I've been enjoying reading your entries very much. It's given me a wonderful insight into the mind of a butch. I have a blog on Live Journal under the name cherishedfemme if you want to check it out. All I mostly do is ramble about how much love my own sweet butch. Here's a handy link. I always welcome new friends.

    http://cherishedfemme.livejournal.com/

    Reply
  48. Annie says:

    Hey,
    I’ve got no website, myspace etc., but I really love your writing and would love even more to get the password – and I’m reallyreallyreally real!

    Femmy thanks from Germany!

    Annie

    Reply
  49. Theresa says:

    Password, please?

    Thanks!

    Reply
  50. Cait says:

    I'm a real person, promise! Passwork please?

    Reply

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