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Lesbian Sex Mafia Workshop! Gendering Power 2/19

Posted on by Sinclair Sexsmith

Come join me at the Lesbian Sex Mafia‘s February workshop!

LSM Presents: Gendering Power: How to Spice Up Your Role Play
with Sinclair Sexsmith

Where: LGBT Center, 208 West 13th Street (bet 7th and 8th Ave.)
When: Friday, February 19, 2010 at 8:00-10:00PM
Cost: $5/LSM members, $10/Non members

An interactive workshop on how the addition of gender to power dynamics in sexual role play scenarios can increase desire, vulnerability, and intimacy, as well as explore deep inner personal gender identities.

Published by Sinclair Sexsmith

Sinclair Sexsmith (they/them) is "the best-known butch erotica writer whose kinky, groundbreaking stories have turned on countless queers" (AfterEllen), who "is in all the books, wins all the awards, speaks at all the panels and readings, knows all the stuff, and writes for all the places" (Autostraddle). ​Their short story collection, Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica, was a 2016 finalist for a Lambda Literary Award, and they are the current editor of the Best Lesbian Erotica series. They identify as a white non-binary butch dominant, a survivor, and an introvert, and they live outside Seattle as an uninvited settler on traditional, ancestral, & unceded Snoqualmie land.

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4 thoughts on “Lesbian Sex Mafia Workshop! Gendering Power 2/19”

  1. Doodle says:

    Damn. This looks like it would be awesome. Too bad I'm in Europe, huh?

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  2. Amanda says:

    LOADS of fun. trust me i've done it. try it

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  3. Kate says:

    Can you elaborate a little? I got an email about this and found it baffling. Nearly every power dynamic has gender dynamic built in because pretty much everyone has a gender. Are we talking secretary-and-the-macho-boss style power play? Or, like, "Hey, I have noticed recently that you have a penis/some reasonable facsimile and I would like to humiliate you because it is small/does not satisfy me"? The phrase "spice up" makes me feel like we're talking costumes and Redbook magazine, but for dykes?

    Also, WTF is a "deep inner personal gender identity"? Like, Arrested Development's "The Man Inside Me"? Does every man have an inner woman?

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  4. DK Leather says:

    you know, there are times I really resent not being in New York. lol

    ~doffs cap~

    DK (you'll know me from the other one, dk-leather.blogspot.com, but I've migrated the adult stuff to the new url)

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