Plus Size Pegging: A Longer Dildo & Comfortable Harness
My wife and I have been dabbling in pegging. She has mentioned to me that the harness is uncomfortable and that it would probably be…
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Which harnesses work with double dildos?
Featured image l-r: Feeldoe Realdoe; Injoyus; Double by BS Atelier; Fuze Tango Double-Ender Dear Mr. Sexsmith, My girlfriend is visiting soon and is buying a…
Ask Mr. Sexsmith: Tomboi vs RodeoH brief-style harness?
Dear Mr. Sexsmith, Have you tried the Spare Parts Tomboi Harness? I saw your review of the RodeoH and agree with the lack of clit…
Review (& Photos!): Aslan Leather TG Chest Harness
Last year, Carrie Grey, creator and owner of Aslan Leather, custom built me one of his leather TG Chest Harnesses. I’ve worn it a few…
Review: Aslan Leather Pleasure Harness (Customized) & Jaguar G
I’ve been searching for The Perfect Harness for a long time. I think at a certain point I gave up, and gave in to the…
RodeoH Boxer Brief Harness Giveaway Winner
Drawings of the RodeoH Boxer Brief Harness by KD Diamond on the RodeoH Tumblr And the winner is … Commenter #48, Jen! Jen, I’ll…
RodeoH Boxer Brief Harness Giveaway! Leave a Comment to Enter
It’s Sugarbutch’s 6th anniversary! So let’s have a giveaway. The RodeoH brief harness has been hugely popular since it was released last year, and they’ve…
Giveaway: The RodeoH Harness Winner Is …
#11, sterhymeswithtree: If you’ve got some time, read through the comment thread on the RodeoH harness giveaway. Everybody left really fun and amazing stories about…
Giveaway: RodeoH Harness!
Hot on the heels of my RodeoH harness review, I was chatting with one of the two girls from the good ol’ Mission District of…
Review: RodeoH Harness
As of 7/28/15 This product is no longer available at Babeland It seems like such a good idea, right? A cute pair of briefs with…
Review: X-Harness
The first time I tried on a chest harness was at a leather festival. I put it on over my tank top and quickly admired…
Review: Leather Pleasure Harness by Aslan Leather
So when Carrie at Aslan Leather sent me the Rubber G, I also got the Leather Pleasure Harness, one of Aslan’s signature harnesses, and to…
Review: Slick G Harness by Aslan Leather
Thank heavens, someone finally answered my prayers: I’ve been in search of The Harness for quite many years now, with some successes, but no amazing…
Review: Black Cat G (Harness)
Are you getting sick of harness reviews yet? I hope not, because I still haven’t found The Perfect Harness (which may or may not actually…
Dear Mr. Sexsmith: Harnesses for Plus-Sized Women?
Dear Mr. Sexsmith: Can you recommend a company or a website that makes strap on dildos for plus sized women? i’ve seen this one on…
Cocks & Harnesses Recommendations
This arrived in my inbox recently: Dear Sinclair, I’m transgendered so when I strap although some of the cocks are tempting to buy, I’m not…
Keeping a Leather Harness Clean
I recently got a new harness, the Commando by Aslan Leather, which has quickly become my new favorite (full review to come later). Though I…
Review: Jaguar Harness
Everyone rants and raves about the Jaguar harness by Aslan Leather – and I get it, I do: the leather is beautiful, it’s incredibly well-made, it feels like a buttery second skin. It’s snug, it adjusts well and easily, stays in place, it feels pretty good to wear – I could keep going with the general praise. You might just love this harness, many people do. Personally, though, I just prefer one-strap harnesses, so I’m not crazy about this one.
Review: Simply Sexy Leather Harness
Good Vibrations sent me the Simply Sexy Leather Harness, a one-strap harness with leather straps and a leather panel behind interchangeable O-rings. And I was not impressed. Let me tell you why.
Review: Undercover Harness
As of 2/8/16 This product is no longer available at Babeland I was just speaking about packing cocks, so now I’ll throw you a little…
Review: Bare As You Dare Harness
My very favorite strap-on harness, reviewed over at Eden Fantasys. It meets my three major requirements for harnesses: interchangeable O-rings, thin harness straps that hit…
Review: Mia-Z (harness)
The Mia-Z Harness by Outlaw Leather, out of Seattle. I’ll entice you with the one key little detail here, then you should head on over…
All Of This, Guest Erotica by A. L. Brooks
Content: marriage proposal, transmasc/femme, top surgery, daddy/girl, age play, blow job, fingering, strap-on, fucking, crying, D/s, possession. Characters are consenting adults. Cam proposes to me…
Best of 2021 on Sugarbutch
Unsurprisingly, the dirty Daddy kinky queer smut continues to be the posts with the highest traffic this year — including a variety of guest posts. Thank…
Try This Sex Toy Combo: Clit Pump + Transthetics Joystick
Once upon a time (you might remember this), I wrote up the Crash Pad Series episode #319 with ACAB and Unkle Daddy, who used a…
Could I Get A Ride, Guest Post by Betty Shade
Content warning: this story contains Daddy/girl dynamics and talk, jealousy, break-up sex, emotional sex and BDSM, and name calling. You’re still there, sitting at the…
Cock Confidence: The RodeoH Slyder (Review)
I’m obsessed. Look, the dildo market for the past twenty years has been a wild ride. In the late 90s, when I started buying dildos,…
Let’s Watch a Porno, Guest Post by Louise Kane
Content: D/s dynamics, control, orders between Sir/girl dynamic; voyeurism, strap-on sex, objectification, alcohol. I yawned as I padded into the living room. It was only…
In Search of A Magic Carpet Sex Toy
A few months ago, a friend came to me with a mysterious sex toy and wanted to know if I knew what it was, or,…
Take My Whip: Fantasy Date Night, Guest Post by rife
It’s Friday night and we keep this night blocked off on the calendar. 5:30 rolls around and you send me around the block to walk…
Feeling Yourself: Getting Acquainted With Your New Strap On
So you bought a strap on harness and dildo — great! Exciting! Congratulations on choosing from the dozens of excellent products that are out there,…
Resources For Sex & Chronic Pain
A friend of mine recently asked me if I had any resources for chronic pain and sexuality. I knew of a few off the top…
Let It All Go, Boy: Part Two, Guest Post by Sonya Bolus
Content: mommy/boy role play, sex. All characters are consenting adults. Read Part One here. ** Mommy: I pull away. Stand up, looking down at you….
Let It All Go, Boy: Part One, Guest Post by Sonya Bolus
“Are you a little boy?”
“Well, yeah. Guess so.” I know I’m blushing again. “But I still like to play hard. Rough. And to serve. I want all that, too.” Long pause, then quietly, “I need it.”
Making Your Strap-On Part of Your Body
When someone straps on, it’s easy for it to feel like an awkward protrusion rather than something connected to their actual body. But there are ways to practice embodying a strap-on so it feels more like you, which can then make it feel more exciting and more connective when using it during play.
Cock Confidence: Uncut with Movable Foreskin
I can’t tell you the number of times folks have asked me about getting a strap-on dildo with foreskin! And while there are some that include the shape of the foreskin in the mold, none of them (that I know of) have foreskin that is movable — until this one!
So, of course, I leapt to purchase it. It’s called King Cock Uncut.
Cock Confidence: Zoro, by Perfect Fit
Zoro is a one-piece strap-on. The silicone is molded to fit the body’s pelvic contour, and it features a protrusion (5.5″), plus a hole underneath…
My Dog, Guest Post by A. Cassell
Content: This story contains explicit sex and dog play. All characters are consenting human adults. I’m a morning person, but it’s early, too early even…
Review: Sam STP from New York Toy Collective
Yep, it’s pretty much everything you want it to be. Sam, the new STP from New York Toy Collective, is a cute little fat soft-ish…
The Best Uncut Strap-Ons: Uncut #1 by Tantus & Ellis by New York Toy Collective
Let’s go ahead and get it out of the way: There is no silicone strap on that I know of which has foreskin that actually…
Hard Handed Femme, Guest Post by Dena Hankins
This story contains consensual BDSM play, including choking, punching, and foreplay. As she circled the large structures for rope play in the middle of the…
Femming the Strap-On, Guest Post by Artemisia FemmeCock
I used to think I wasn’t gay enough to have a cock. I cringe at that now, wondering what the hell it even means to…
Review: 4-in-1 Natural—Pack, Pee, Play, & Pleasure from FreeToM Prosthetics
I don’t usually review or play with very many “prosthetics” because, well, I’ll be honest: they are usually incredibly expensive. But recently I’ve noticed a…
Review: Finally, an Ejaculating Dildo: The Semenette
There are very few options for strap-on dildos that ejaculate. There are quite a few “novelty toys” out there, but they usually have one of…
On the Importance of Queer, Women Centered, & Feminist Sex Toy Shops (Map)
When I was traveling around to toy stores and bookstores across North America for the release of Say Please, I started keeping a list of…
Review: What’s the Best Wand Vibrator?
In general, I’m not much of a fan of vibrators. I used to be—small, buzzy egg vibrators were some of the first sex toys I…
Just This Next Thrust (Angie & Fern #4)
Fern saunters down the corridor like she’s window shopping, so casual, so indifferent. She’s in a simple dark grey summer dress that bounces a little…
DJ’s Birthday Gangbang (Kai & DJ #4)
I have always wanted to throw someone a gangbang. And by someone, I mean DJ. Maybe because they’ve thrown a few for me—it’s amazing how…
Taking It (Kai & DJ #2)
The boy is in the center of our bedroom, hands chained to the eyebolt in the ceiling, body stretched long. Their eyes are closed and…
The Last Night (Asher & Jesse #5)
The envelope from UT Houston stayed hidden in Jesse’s file cabinet for a week before she even had the nerve to tell Asher it had…