Protected: Rife’s Bow Tie Birthday Party

May 2nd, 2013 • 2 minute read • by


Seven years ago, I started this project named Sugarbutch

May 1st, 2013 • 4 minute read • by


International Ms. Leather 2013 Begins Tonight! Say Please, Pack n Play Cocks, Happy Hour, More

April 18th, 2013 • 3 minute read • by


Feel into your own blooming: Celebrating the Body Erotic for Women in NYC

April 15th, 2013 • 4 minute read • by


Protected: Knowland, Oakland

April 15th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by


Protected: Closer.

April 10th, 2013 • 3 minute read • by


Trans Women Belong at Smith, BUTCH: Not Like the Other Girls, and Lots of Other Things To Tell You About

April 5th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by


A Dirty Excerpt from Carrie’s Story [Blog Tour]

March 29th, 2013 • 7 minute read • by


Smith College, Oh My!, The CSPH, UTK Sex Week, IMsL, and Where Else I’ll Be In the Next Few Months

March 25th, 2013 • 3 minute read • by


Carrie’s Story, Slow Surrender, and Other Things I’ve Been Devouring To Distract Myself

March 14th, 2013 • 4 minute read • by


Review: Shilo, the Bendable Silicone Packing Cock by NY Toy Collective

March 14th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by


“Conversations Build Communities”: BUTCH Voices To Hold 3rd Biennial National Conference in Oakland August 15-18, 2013

March 11th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by


“One True Thing,” Girlyman’s Tylan’s Solo Debut

March 10th, 2013 • < 1 minute read • by


Everything You Want To Know About Sex & Kink at New College in Florida

March 8th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by


Review: Leather Ever After edited by Sassafras Lowrey (book)

February 27th, 2013 • < 1 minute read • by


Opportunities with the BUTCH Voices Media Team

February 27th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by


Protected: Back on the Path

February 24th, 2013 • 3 minute read • by


So I’m still doing that crazy traveling thing …

February 13th, 2013 • < 1 minute read • by


Hey Seattle! Beauty and the BUTCH April 27, a BUTCH Voices Benefit

February 11th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by


Open Relationship Mini Interview with Aida: Exercise the Love Muscle

February 7th, 2013 • 4 minute read • by


Outside the Boxes: Celebrating the Queer Body Erotic in Philadelphia March 1-3

February 4th, 2013 • 5 minute read • by


“Twice the Pleasure: Bisexual Erotica” Has My Butch-on-Fag Story “Right Red Flagging”

February 4th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by


Open Relationship Mini Interview with Sassafras Lowrey: “I live the queer life I’ve always dreamed of”

February 1st, 2013 • 3 minute read • by


Free QueerPorn.TV #Pornparty Tonight! All You Need is an Internet Connection at 6pm PST/9pm EST

January 31st, 2013 • 2 minute read • by


Open Relationship Mini Interview with Nayland: “I finally am having the sorts of relationships that I’ve wanted all my life”

January 23rd, 2013 • < 1 minute read • by


“Reading erotica is a GREAT way to explore your sexuality.” Tristan Taormino Interviewed Me On Sex Out Loud

January 14th, 2013 • < 1 minute read • by


Where I’ll Be in Spring 2013: Leaving Marks, Fucking Forever, and Other Workshops in Toronto, Seattle, New York, and More

January 11th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by


Queer Porn TV Free #PornParty January 31st

January 11th, 2013 • 3 minute read • by


Open Relationship Mini Interview with Katrina: People Are Adventures

January 11th, 2013 • < 1 minute read • by


Open Relationship Mini Interview with Charlie Glickman: “Being poly doesn’t make you more evolved”

January 10th, 2013 • 3 minute read • by


What Dyke Looks Like: Photographer Kristy Boyce is Visiting NYC

January 8th, 2013 • < 1 minute read • by


Open Relationship Mini Interview with Alphafemme: I Create My Own Sense of Security and Safety

January 7th, 2013 • 4 minute read • by


Hey Seattle: Strap On Skills, Dirty Talk, Leaving Marks Workshops in January

January 7th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by


Open Relationship Mini Interview with Roxy: In Love With the Whole World

January 4th, 2013 • 3 minute read • by


Open Relationships Mini Interview with Ashley: Love is Infinite

January 3rd, 2013 • 2 minute read • by


Open Relationship Mini Interview with Hawkin47: Freedom is Worth the Pain & Pangs of Jealousy

January 2nd, 2013 • 4 minute read • by


Open Relationship Mini Interview with Becca Bee: Identify Needs vs Wants

January 1st, 2013 • < 1 minute read • by


Open Relationship Mini Interview with EK: I Wish I’d Had A Manual

January 1st, 2013 • 3 minute read • by


Open Relationship Mini Interview with Katie: Fluidity in Long Term Relationships

December 31st, 2012 • 2 minute read • by


The Best Things I Wrote About Sex, Gender, & Relationships in 2012

December 30th, 2012 • 10 minute read • by


Open Relationship Mini Interview with Colin: Jealousy is a Pain Reaction

December 30th, 2012 • 3 minute read • by


Open Relationship Mini Interview with Ozy: Compersion is Seriously Excellent

December 29th, 2012 • 3 minute read • by


Open Relationship Mini Interview with Doodle: Assumptions, Impatience, Jealousy, Emotional Freedom

December 29th, 2012 • 5 minute read • by


Open Relationship Mini Interview with Parks: This is Magic, I Promise

December 28th, 2012 • 3 minute read • by


Open Relationship Mini Interview with Andrea Zanin: Applies to All Relationships, Not Just Poly

December 28th, 2012 • 5 minute read • by


Open Relationship Mini Interview with Lolita: Rules Can’t Balance Out Insecurities

December 27th, 2012 • < 1 minute read • by


Protected: Edge

December 27th, 2012 • 2 minute read • by


Photos from the Dirty Queer Sex Tour: Dallas

December 27th, 2012 • < 1 minute read • by


Open Relationship Mini Interview with Jack: Ridiculously Hot Kink & Sex

December 27th, 2012 • 2 minute read • by


Open Relationship Mini Interview with Dire: Relationship Resilience (and Sexual Variety)

December 26th, 2012 • 3 minute read • by