Protected: How Are Daddy/boy and Daddy/girl Different?

April 30th, 2022 • 3 minute read • by


Happy #InternationalPronounDay!

October 20th, 2020 • 2 minute read • by


This Is A Conversation About Duties: On M/s Language

August 29th, 2020 • 5 minute read • by


The Impact of M/s Language: Voices from the Community

July 31st, 2020 • 4 minute read • by


On Representing the M/s Title

July 31st, 2020 • 4 minute read • by


On Stepping Away From M/s Language

July 24th, 2020 • 6 minute read • by


“There Are Others Like You:” Interview with Rowdy, rife’s Puppy

February 18th, 2020 • 2 minute read • by


Ready to Make Waves: Two Recent Inspirational Leather Speeches

January 31st, 2020 • < 1 minute read • by


Resources For Sex & Chronic Pain

January 20th, 2020 • 2 minute read • by


No, You Don’t “Get” Racism Because You Are Oppressed, Too

November 27th, 2019 • 2 minute read • by


Bi-Erasure, Community, and Other Thoughts on Bisexual Visibility Day

September 23rd, 2019 • 3 minute read • by


What Are You Going To Do With That Women, Gender, Sexuality Studies Degree?

August 5th, 2019 • 3 minute read • by


Femming the Strap-On, Guest Post by Artemisia FemmeCock

July 28th, 2016 • 3 minute read • by


Microagressions & Misgendering: “Right this way, ladies.”

December 21st, 2015 • 8 minute read • by


Queer Masculinity in Porn: Heavenly Spire, Stepfather’s Secret, & More

January 30th, 2015 • 11 minute read • by


Things I, as a white sex educator, do to foster inclusivity in this community

December 16th, 2014 • 6 minute read • by


Long Live the Butch

November 20th, 2014 • 6 minute read • by


On Gender Perception, or: Break Your Eyes Open to Genderqueers

October 9th, 2014 • 6 minute read • by


Let’s Talk About Bleeding While Butch

August 31st, 2014 • 7 minute read • by


Is genderqueer (or butch) a stepping stone to transitioning?

February 3rd, 2014 • 5 minute read • by


Why Lesbian Erotica is Activism

December 10th, 2013 • 5 minute read • by


To the femmes on whom I’ve crushed this past year

October 5th, 2013 • 5 minute read • by


Ask Mr. Sexsmith: First time with a girl

September 18th, 2013 • 6 minute read • by


Ask Mr. Sexsmith Anything: What words compliment a butch lover?

August 29th, 2013 • 3 minute read • by


Femme Invisibility & Beyond

January 15th, 2012 • 9 minute read • by


“10 Hottest Butches of 2011” & the End of the Butch Lab Project

January 6th, 2012 • 2 minute read • by


Protected: Body Hair, Pronouns, and Other Personal Gender Things I’m Figuring Out

December 14th, 2011 • 6 minute read • by


What is even DISCUSSED at a “femme conference”?

October 28th, 2011 • 5 minute read • by


A Little Bit About Butch Voices, Butch Nation, and “Masculine of Center”

August 11th, 2011 • 6 minute read • by


Living Gender

July 15th, 2011 • 4 minute read • by


Unsolicited Advice to a New Butch (aka The Butch Poem)

June 14th, 2011 • 3 minute read • by


Mini Interview: Just Jess

June 10th, 2011 • 2 minute read • by


My Favorite Binder (More On Butch Bras)

June 10th, 2011 • 2 minute read • by


When “Gender Expression” Means “Masculine”

June 9th, 2011 • 3 minute read • by


Mini Interview: Jiz Lee

May 18th, 2011 • < 1 minute read • by


Butch Lab’s Symposium #2 is Up!

April 11th, 2011 • 7 minute read • by


Angie Evans: Mini-Interview

March 28th, 2011 • 2 minute read • by


Wendi Kali: Mini-Interview

March 25th, 2011 • 2 minute read • by


Tobi Hill-Meyer: Mini-Interview

March 21st, 2011 • 3 minute read • by


What does ‘Genderqueer’ mean?

March 15th, 2011 • 4 minute read • by


Miriam Zoila Perez: Mini-Interview

March 4th, 2011 • < 1 minute read • by


Still Time to Contribute to Symposium #2

March 2nd, 2011 • < 1 minute read • by


AT: Mini-Interview

February 28th, 2011 • 2 minute read • by


Jenni Olson: Mini-Interview

February 25th, 2011 • < 1 minute read • by


Claudia Rodriguez (aka C-Rod): Mini-Interview

February 21st, 2011 • 3 minute read • by


Raquel Gutierrez: Mini-Interview

February 18th, 2011 • < 1 minute read • by


Butch Lab Symposium #2, Feb/March 2011

February 15th, 2011 • < 1 minute read • by


Grace Moon: Mini-Interview

February 14th, 2011 • < 1 minute read • by


Daddi Dice: Mini-Interview

February 11th, 2011 • 2 minute read • by


Syd London: Mini-Interview

February 7th, 2011 • 2 minute read • by