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Protected: How Are Daddy/boy and Daddy/girl Different?
April 30th, 2022 •
3
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Happy #InternationalPronounDay!
October 20th, 2020 •
2
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
This Is A Conversation About Duties: On M/s Language
August 29th, 2020 •
5
minute read • by
Anonymous
The Impact of M/s Language: Voices from the Community
July 31st, 2020 •
4
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
On Representing the M/s Title
July 31st, 2020 •
4
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
On Stepping Away From M/s Language
July 24th, 2020 •
6
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
“There Are Others Like You:” Interview with Rowdy, rife’s Puppy
February 18th, 2020 •
2
minute read • by
rife
Ready to Make Waves: Two Recent Inspirational Leather Speeches
January 31st, 2020 •
< 1
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Resources For Sex & Chronic Pain
January 20th, 2020 •
2
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
No, You Don’t “Get” Racism Because You Are Oppressed, Too
November 27th, 2019 •
2
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Bi-Erasure, Community, and Other Thoughts on Bisexual Visibility Day
September 23rd, 2019 •
3
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
What Are You Going To Do With That Women, Gender, Sexuality Studies Degree?
August 5th, 2019 •
3
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Femming the Strap-On, Guest Post by Artemisia FemmeCock
July 28th, 2016 •
3
minute read • by
Artemisia FemmeCock
Microagressions & Misgendering: “Right this way, ladies.”
December 21st, 2015 •
8
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Queer Masculinity in Porn: Heavenly Spire, Stepfather’s Secret, & More
January 30th, 2015 •
11
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Things I, as a white sex educator, do to foster inclusivity in this community
December 16th, 2014 •
6
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Long Live the Butch
November 20th, 2014 •
6
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
On Gender Perception, or: Break Your Eyes Open to Genderqueers
October 9th, 2014 •
6
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Let’s Talk About Bleeding While Butch
August 31st, 2014 •
7
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Is genderqueer (or butch) a stepping stone to transitioning?
February 3rd, 2014 •
5
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Why Lesbian Erotica is Activism
December 10th, 2013 •
5
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
To the femmes on whom I’ve crushed this past year
October 5th, 2013 •
5
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Ask Mr. Sexsmith: First time with a girl
September 18th, 2013 •
6
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Ask Mr. Sexsmith Anything: What words compliment a butch lover?
August 29th, 2013 •
3
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Femme Invisibility & Beyond
January 15th, 2012 •
9
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
“10 Hottest Butches of 2011” & the End of the Butch Lab Project
January 6th, 2012 •
2
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Protected: Body Hair, Pronouns, and Other Personal Gender Things I’m Figuring Out
December 14th, 2011 •
6
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
What is even DISCUSSED at a “femme conference”?
October 28th, 2011 •
5
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
A Little Bit About Butch Voices, Butch Nation, and “Masculine of Center”
August 11th, 2011 •
6
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Living Gender
July 15th, 2011 •
4
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Unsolicited Advice to a New Butch (aka The Butch Poem)
June 14th, 2011 •
3
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Mini Interview: Just Jess
June 10th, 2011 •
2
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
My Favorite Binder (More On Butch Bras)
June 10th, 2011 •
2
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
When “Gender Expression” Means “Masculine”
June 9th, 2011 •
3
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Mini Interview: Jiz Lee
May 18th, 2011 •
< 1
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Butch Lab’s Symposium #2 is Up!
April 11th, 2011 •
7
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Angie Evans: Mini-Interview
March 28th, 2011 •
2
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Wendi Kali: Mini-Interview
March 25th, 2011 •
2
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Tobi Hill-Meyer: Mini-Interview
March 21st, 2011 •
3
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
What does ‘Genderqueer’ mean?
March 15th, 2011 •
4
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Miriam Zoila Perez: Mini-Interview
March 4th, 2011 •
< 1
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Still Time to Contribute to Symposium #2
March 2nd, 2011 •
< 1
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
AT: Mini-Interview
February 28th, 2011 •
2
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Jenni Olson: Mini-Interview
February 25th, 2011 •
< 1
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Claudia Rodriguez (aka C-Rod): Mini-Interview
February 21st, 2011 •
3
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Raquel Gutierrez: Mini-Interview
February 18th, 2011 •
< 1
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Butch Lab Symposium #2, Feb/March 2011
February 15th, 2011 •
< 1
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Grace Moon: Mini-Interview
February 14th, 2011 •
< 1
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Daddi Dice: Mini-Interview
February 11th, 2011 •
2
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Syd London: Mini-Interview
February 7th, 2011 •
2
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
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