essays

This includes my personal understandings of gender theory, queer theory, BDSM theory, power theory, feminist theory, butch/femme dynamic and identity.

On Masculinity, Mine

July 5th, 2010 • 3 minute read • by

Consuming Porn of Other Orientations

July 1st, 2010 • 3 minute read • by

Reconciling Feminism & Sadism

June 29th, 2010 • 6 minute read • by

Anal Week Wrap-Up

June 15th, 2010 • < 1 minute read • by

BDSM is Not Abuse

June 12th, 2010 • 2 minute read • by

From Not Stone to Stone-ish

June 11th, 2010 • 4 minute read • by

On Processing & Analyzing

June 7th, 2010 • 4 minute read • by

Quick Anal Interview: YOU!

May 12th, 2010 • < 1 minute read • by

Quick Anal Interview: Erudite Hayseed

May 11th, 2010 • 3 minute read • by

Best Anal Scenes in Queer Porn

May 10th, 2010 • 5 minute read • by

There’s A Reason Why Sex Education is Radical

April 28th, 2010 • 5 minute read • by

Anal Scenes in Queer Porn with Essin’ Em

April 27th, 2010 • 2 minute read • by

Anal Scenes in Queer Porn with JD Bauchery

April 26th, 2010 • < 1 minute read • by

Quick Anal Interview with Lissa

April 25th, 2010 • < 1 minute read • by

Quick Anal Interview with Sophia St. James

April 25th, 2010 • < 1 minute read • by

Quick Anal Interview with Madison Young

April 22nd, 2010 • 2 minute read • by

Quick Anal Interview with Tawny

April 22nd, 2010 • 2 minute read • by

Quick Anal Interview with Bailey

April 22nd, 2010 • 2 minute read • by

Quick Anal Interview with Dylan Ryan

April 20th, 2010 • 2 minute read • by

Quick Anal Interview with Charlie Glickman

April 19th, 2010 • 2 minute read • by

Anal Sex Week Starts Today

April 19th, 2010 • 2 minute read • by

Following Up: What’s Next? Queer Activism in the South

April 9th, 2010 • 3 minute read • by

So What’s Next?: McMillen’s Fake Prom

April 7th, 2010 • 5 minute read • by

Spanking 101

March 16th, 2010 • 2 minute read • by

Consent Obsession

February 15th, 2010 • 5 minute read • by

My Evolving Masculinity, Part Four: Personal

January 8th, 2010 • 4 minute read • by

Define: Spectrum Banging

January 7th, 2010 • 2 minute read • by

Radical Masculinity #3: When Men Wear Skirts

December 31st, 2009 • 2 minute read • by

Yes, No, and Consent

December 28th, 2009 • 5 minute read • by

Reconciling the Identities of Feminist & Butch Top

December 18th, 2009 • 7 minute read • by

World AIDS Day: Safer Sex, History, and Interconnectivity

December 1st, 2009 • 6 minute read • by

On Femme Invisibility

November 23rd, 2009 • 10 minute read • by

Scarleteen: Help Lift Sex Ed to a Higher Plane

November 17th, 2009 • 9 minute read • by

Fucking & Making Love

November 11th, 2009 • 7 minute read • by

Radical Masculinity: How to Make Masculinity Stop Hurting

November 11th, 2009 • 2 minute read • by

Protected: My Evolving Masculinity, Part Three: “Daddy”

October 20th, 2009 • 4 minute read • by

My Evolving Masculinity, Part Two: Yin & Yang

October 14th, 2009 • 7 minute read • by

Dear Mr. Sexsmith: Packing

October 13th, 2009 • 3 minute read • by

National Coming Out Day & Matthew Shepard

October 12th, 2009 • 2 minute read • by

A Manifesto for Radical Masculinity (on Carnal Nation)

October 12th, 2009 • 2 minute read • by

Dear Mr. Sexsmith: Harnesses for Plus-Sized Women?

October 8th, 2009 • 2 minute read • by

Follow-up: I’d Like To Fuck Her Ass

September 25th, 2009 • 3 minute read • by

Define: Sovereignty

September 18th, 2009 • 3 minute read • by

“Is it a trans characteristic to wear a cock?”: Cock-centricity and Gender Identity

September 17th, 2009 • 5 minute read • by

Definitions of Butch & Femme

September 11th, 2009 • 2 minute read • by

Cocks & Harnesses Recommendations

September 4th, 2009 • 2 minute read • by

On Getting Girls Off

September 3rd, 2009 • 4 minute read • by

My Evolving Masculinity: Part One, Introduction

August 6th, 2009 • 4 minute read • by

How To Begin Playing with BDSM

July 30th, 2009 • 4 minute read • by

Pioneers, Visionaries, Safe Havens, and Glitter

June 19th, 2009 • 2 minute read • by