Tag: ask mr. sexsmith

Plus Size Pegging: A Longer Dildo & Comfortable Harness

August 26th, 2019 • 2 minute read • by

Ask Mr. Sexsmith: I’m a sub, but my partner is not a dom. What do I do?

June 6th, 2014 • 4 minute read • by

Ask Mr. Sexsmith: I struggle with my feminist beliefs and my bedroom preferences … help!

April 18th, 2014 • 7 minute read • by

Ask Mr. Sexsmith: How Do I Use My Girlfriend for My Pleasure?

March 19th, 2014 • 6 minute read • by

Is genderqueer (or butch) a stepping stone to transitioning?

February 3rd, 2014 • 5 minute read • by

Ask Mr. Sexsmith: Didn’t you mention a marketing or business ecourse recently?

January 8th, 2014 • 2 minute read • by

Ask Mr. Sexsmith: Tomboi vs RodeoH brief-style harness?

November 27th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by

Ask Mr. Sexsmith: What happens to the stuff on the anal toys when you boil them?

September 20th, 2013 • 2 minute read • by

Kristen & Sinclair Answer Your Questions, Episode 3: “How Can I Be More Open About Kink?”

July 6th, 2012 • < 1 minute read • by

Kristen & Sinclair Answer Your Questions, Episode 2: “How To Have a Successful Threesome”

June 11th, 2012 • < 1 minute read • by

Kristen & Sinclair Answer Your Questions – Episode 1: “I Want To Be Taken”

May 29th, 2012 • < 1 minute read • by

Femme Invisibility & Beyond

January 15th, 2012 • 9 minute read • by

Ask Me Anything! No Really

September 28th, 2011 • < 1 minute read • by

Ask Me Anything: What to Wear to a BDSM Weekend?

September 14th, 2011 • < 1 minute read • by

Ask Me Anything: How to Give Blow Jobs Without Feeling Stupid

August 4th, 2011 • 2 minute read • by

Ask Me Anything: What To Do With Old Sex Toys?

June 7th, 2011 • 2 minute read • by

Ask Me Anything: Strapping On For the First Time

June 1st, 2011 • 4 minute read • by

Ask Me Anything: My Favorite Spanking

June 1st, 2011 • < 1 minute read • by

Ask Me Anything: Queer Despite the Straight Relationship

May 31st, 2011 • 3 minute read • by

Cock Confidence: How Not To Slip Out When Strapped On

May 24th, 2011 • 3 minute read • by

Ask Me Anything: Strap-On Positions When Someone is Taller

May 23rd, 2011 • 2 minute read • by

Ask Me Anything: Confidence & Getting Girls Off

May 10th, 2011 • 6 minute read • by

Ask Me Anything: Origins of ‘Sugarbutch’, and Butch Identity Advice

May 3rd, 2011 • 3 minute read • by

Ask Me Anything: Non-Cheesy “Self-Help”

May 2nd, 2011 • 2 minute read • by

Ask Me Anything: Smut Day

April 29th, 2011 • < 1 minute read • by

Happy 5th Anniversary, Sugarbutch! And: Ask Me Anything

April 29th, 2011 • 3 minute read • by

Ask Me Anything: Being Recognized & Dreaming About Sex

October 8th, 2010 • < 1 minute read • by

Ask Me Anything: Coming Out at Work

October 7th, 2010 • 3 minute read • by

Ask Me Anything: Becoming More Dominant

October 6th, 2010 • 4 minute read • by

Ask Me Anything: Standards of Beauty

October 5th, 2010 • 4 minute read • by

On Being Left Out of Butch & Femme

August 13th, 2010 • 5 minute read • by

Stories from My Youth

August 9th, 2010 • 5 minute read • by

On Masculinity, Mine

July 5th, 2010 • 3 minute read • by

Consuming Porn of Other Orientations

July 1st, 2010 • 3 minute read • by

Reconciling Feminism & Sadism

June 29th, 2010 • 6 minute read • by

From Not Stone to Stone-ish

June 11th, 2010 • 4 minute read • by

Happy 4th Anniversary, Sugarbutch!

April 29th, 2010 • 3 minute read • by

Spanking 101

March 16th, 2010 • 2 minute read • by

Dear Mr. Sexsmith: Packing

October 13th, 2009 • 3 minute read • by

Dear Mr. Sexsmith: Harnesses for Plus-Sized Women?

October 8th, 2009 • 2 minute read • by

“Is it a trans characteristic to wear a cock?”: Cock-centricity and Gender Identity

September 17th, 2009 • 5 minute read • by

Cocks & Harnesses Recommendations

September 4th, 2009 • 2 minute read • by

How To Begin Playing with BDSM

July 30th, 2009 • 4 minute read • by

Personal favorites, and more answers

May 12th, 2009 • 3 minute read • by

Sadism, and the Study of Pain

May 7th, 2009 • 5 minute read • by

Answers to some questions

April 30th, 2009 • 4 minute read • by

Happy 3rd Anniversary, Sugarbutch

April 29th, 2009 • < 1 minute read • by