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Protected: How Are Daddy/boy and Daddy/girl Different?
April 30th, 2022 •
3
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Protected: Is that even true?
November 30th, 2021 •
6
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Protected: There Are Gifts In the Dark. Happy Solstice
December 22nd, 2020 •
3
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Happy #InternationalPronounDay!
October 20th, 2020 •
2
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
The Singular “They” Is Grammatically Correct, Dammit
May 16th, 2019 •
4
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Dear (Cis) People Who Put Your Pronouns On Your “Hello My Name Is” Name Tag
April 20th, 2019 •
3
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
14 ways of looking at New York
January 27th, 2016 •
2
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
The Ten Sugarbutch Cock Commandments
September 26th, 2014 •
8
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Is genderqueer (or butch) a stepping stone to transitioning?
February 3rd, 2014 •
5
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
The Gender Book’s crowdfunding campaign is funded! But you should still go buy a copy for yourself right now
December 4th, 2013 •
4
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Coming Out Genderqueer: An Open Letter to My Family & Friends
November 26th, 2013 •
4
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Review: Jam Body Tank, aka Compression Tank, aka Faux-Binder
August 21st, 2013 •
2
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Outside the Boxes: Celebrating the Queer Body Erotic in Philadelphia March 1-3
February 4th, 2013 •
5
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Protected: Body Hair, Pronouns, and Other Personal Gender Things I’m Figuring Out
December 14th, 2011 •
6
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Review: Sexing the Transman XXX DVD
December 9th, 2011 •
< 1
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Living Gender
July 15th, 2011 •
4
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Nominations Needed for Top Hot Butches
October 29th, 2010 •
4
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Ten Ways I Am A Gender Outlaw
October 8th, 2010 •
6
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Countdown to the Femme Conference: Two Weeks
August 6th, 2010 •
2
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
“There’s a Man in the Woman’s Room NOT” by Kelli Dunham
July 4th, 2010 •
< 1
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Review: Lesbian Cowboys (Book)
June 18th, 2010 •
2
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Review: Deluxe Packing Pouch
June 16th, 2010 •
2
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
The Great LGBTQ Photo Show Opens Next Week
June 11th, 2010 •
< 1
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Reconciling the Identities of Feminist & Butch Top
December 18th, 2009 •
7
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
On Femme Invisibility
November 23rd, 2009 •
10
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Bent Mentor Showcase in Seattle
October 26th, 2009 •
3
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
My Evolving Masculinity, Part Two: Yin & Yang
October 14th, 2009 •
7
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Bucking the System: Buck Angel Q&A
October 8th, 2009 •
< 1
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
“Is it a trans characteristic to wear a cock?”: Cock-centricity and Gender Identity
September 17th, 2009 •
5
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Definitions of Butch & Femme
September 11th, 2009 •
2
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
A Butch Roadmap
July 16th, 2009 •
< 1
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Label me, Genderstats
June 3rd, 2009 •
2
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Define: Unthought Known
May 22nd, 2009 •
2
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Poll: What do you think about labels?
May 12th, 2009 •
3
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
For every girl, there is a boy …
April 27th, 2009 •
< 1
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
A Love Letter to Femmes
April 1st, 2009 •
< 1
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
On Butch Eyebrows: waxed or natural?
March 31st, 2009 •
< 1
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Clit Pumping: How to Grow
March 11th, 2009 •
4
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Cock Confidence and the KinkForAll Conference
March 11th, 2009 •
5
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
On Butches: Coming Inside
March 5th, 2009 •
3
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Gendered Sources of Physical Power: Beauty vs Strength
February 15th, 2009 •
3
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Feminist Carnival of Sexual Freedom & Autonomy #15
January 27th, 2009 •
9
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Sexual Autonomy & Freedom
January 23rd, 2009 •
4
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Define: “butch in the streets, femme in the sheets”
December 26th, 2008 •
< 1
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Define: Identity Alignment Assumptions
December 2nd, 2008 •
< 1
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Bring it on: Ongoing call for Queer Eye Candy
November 6th, 2008 •
2
minute read • by
QEC
On being a (gender) freak in New York City
October 8th, 2008 •
3
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
upon returning, a small complaint
September 24th, 2008 •
3
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
On Pronouns, Mine
September 16th, 2008 •
2
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
Masculinity Depictions in Disney Films
September 2nd, 2008 •
< 1
minute read • by
Sinclair Sexsmith
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