Protected: Tulips & Trust

April 30th, 2022 • 2 minute read • by


Monogamous People Should Read This, Too: Polysecure by Jessica Fern (Review)

October 31st, 2021 • 4 minute read • by


9 Ideas to Support Your D/s During Hard Times

February 27th, 2021 • 5 minute read • by


Cartography of Control: A Map For Areas of Dominance & Submission

December 31st, 2019 • 3 minute read • by


These Eight Years

September 30th, 2019 • 3 minute read • by


The Outermost Bracket™: A Theory on D/s and Non-Monogamy

January 28th, 2019 • 6 minute read • by


Creating a Submissive Training Plan for Yourself

December 31st, 2018 • 4 minute read • by


7 Tips For Flirting As A Submissive

September 11th, 2015 • 5 minute read • by


“I found a sense of clarity about my path:” Interview with Shiris

August 26th, 2015 • 3 minute read • by


Stone Grief (Kai & DJ #3)

March 27th, 2015 • 5 minute read • by


The Last Night (Asher & Jesse #5)

February 28th, 2015 • 7 minute read • by


Reduced to Expletives (Asher & Jesse #3)

February 19th, 2015 • 4 minute read • by


Where I Come From

July 21st, 2014 • 4 minute read • by


How I make my boy do the dishes

January 27th, 2014 • 6 minute read • by


Protected: Making Peace #10

September 6th, 2013 • 6 minute read • by


Protected: Making Peace #5

August 30th, 2013 • 4 minute read • by


Dominance & Power with Responsibility

June 24th, 2013 • 4 minute read • by


Open Relationship Mini Interview with Charlie Glickman: “Being poly doesn’t make you more evolved”

January 10th, 2013 • 3 minute read • by


To Do While Grieving List

October 28th, 2012 • 2 minute read • by


Protected: Love Letter #16

April 20th, 2012 • 4 minute read • by


Protected: Love Letter #15

April 13th, 2012 • 2 minute read • by


Protected: Love Letter #13

March 31st, 2012 • 3 minute read • by


Protected: Love Letter #12

March 24th, 2012 • 6 minute read • by


Protected: Love Letter #9

March 5th, 2012 • 4 minute read • by


Protected: Love Letter #1

January 6th, 2012 • 3 minute read • by


Protected: “With My Brothers Standing By”

September 1st, 2011 • 3 minute read • by


Protected: “The Champion Within”

May 6th, 2011 • 4 minute read • by


Ask Me Anything: Non-Cheesy “Self-Help”

May 2nd, 2011 • 2 minute read • by


On Running Away and Boundaries

March 16th, 2011 • 2 minute read • by


Protected: Day After

March 16th, 2011 • 8 minute read • by


Protected: Dry March

March 11th, 2011 • 3 minute read • by


Protected: Household Changes

February 11th, 2011 • 3 minute read • by


So, Hi. I’m Back.

February 2nd, 2011 • 4 minute read • by


Protected: Responsibilities to Ourselves and Others

November 14th, 2010 • 6 minute read • by


Protected: “So, What Happened?”

October 28th, 2010 • 8 minute read • by


Protected: It’s Official

August 4th, 2010 • 6 minute read • by


The Ongoing Quest to be Sexually Fulfilled

August 2nd, 2010 • 5 minute read • by


Get a Dominant to Dominate

July 13th, 2010 • < 1 minute read • by


On Processing & Analyzing

June 7th, 2010 • 4 minute read • by


How Do I Let Go of a Past Hurt?

March 11th, 2010 • 6 minute read • by


Desperation & Dominance

March 5th, 2010 • 7 minute read • by


Love Letter #4 (Growing Pains)

March 2nd, 2010 • 3 minute read • by


Protected: Articulating What I Need When I Need It

January 11th, 2010 • 6 minute read • by


Protected: Kristen’s Homework: Will Return Soon

January 7th, 2010 • 3 minute read • by


Year One With Kristen (Happy Anniversary)

December 13th, 2009 • 4 minute read • by


Fucking & Making Love

November 11th, 2009 • 7 minute read • by


Protected: Inner Kingdom

September 18th, 2009 • 3 minute read • by


Protected: The Risk it Takes to Blossom: Summer Into Fall

September 1st, 2009 • 18 minute read • by


Tachycardia

July 24th, 2009 • 2 minute read • by


“Can I come? Please?”

July 7th, 2009 • 4 minute read • by